You are right that there is no need for a hobbyist to point out your limited number of reviews. Everybody starts somewhere. If a hobbyist is not comfortable seeing you based on a pure number of reviews, then he should simply pass. There is no need for him to PM you and tell you he'd see you if only you had more reviews. It's a waste of everyone's time.
But understand that every hobbyist has their own standard of comfort level in determining whom to see. Yes, it is certainly wonderful meeting new and "exotic" ladies and there is a certain thrill meeting someone for the first time....that's an absolute benefit of the hobby. But TER reviews provide an invaluable service. The more reviews a lady has, the more confident a hobbyist is in the type of session he too will enjoy. It's not a case of relying solely on the opinion of others. In an often unpredictable hobby as this one, reviews can provide stability and legitimacy. Most hobbyists do not care about the real specifics of any one particular review. But they do care that enough reviews state what a session is like and that gives them the confidence to spend their hard earned cash on seeing someone. At the end of the day, if you put yourself out there and keep active on the boards, your reviews will come. The more hobbyists get to know you through TER, there will be some men who will ultimately feel comfortable enough to see you despite your limited reviews. You'll eventually build up your credentials and then many more hobbyists will follow.-- Modified on 8/5/2016 5:02:05 AM
Why does TER reviewers message me just to say, "I wish you had more reviews because you're beautiful." ?? Isn't the point of the hobby is to try someone new and exotic? Does your decision to spend time with me SOLELY rely on the opinion of someone else?! Does the thrill of new and unknown not spark a mans' interest anymore?
That being said, the point of the hobby, for me, is to have NSA sex with hot, sane women while making sure as best I can not to get nabbed by LE. With only one review, you are a much higher risk to most here than a girl with many reviews from many legit reviewers.
You are also $500/hr. Not knocking your rate, but that is a lot of money for many people and guys want to make sure you are legit, per the parameters above, before they plunk down that kind of money and take the risk you are asking them to take
I appreciate your feedback.
You are also $500/hr. Not knocking your rate, but that is a lot of money for many people and guys want to make sure you are legit, per the parameters above, before they plunk down that kind of money and take the risk you are asking them to take.
You have a great site and pics and your one review is from a legit reviewer so it seems you will be flooded with session requests once you get a few more good reviews.
It does take a bit of patience at first so hang in there but everyone goes through this in the beginning.
Best of luck to you!
Even if they don't say it explicitly, they are hoping that by pointing out that they want to see you, you will offer them a discount to encourage them go get over their review worries. Blacklist them and don't worry about it.
This doesn't seem to be a case where a black list is warranted. I was always told and read here that blacklisting is for serious offenses. In my humble opinion, a guy who sends a lady a compliment about her looks and says he would like to see her one day in the future if she receives more good reviews, that that action by itself doesn't rise to the level of a black listing nor does it come close. And I am also not sure where you got the notion that the men were trying to scam anyone. Not sure how you read that from the OP. She is a beginner and if she starts black listing gents for such small infractions, she wont be in the business long or she will have a very bad reputation. Maybe some more experienced ladies can comment on this.
First of all, by blacklist, I meant add to her personal blacklist of timewasters and people not to see. I wasn't suggesting she report the person to some shared blacklist. Just that she block these people.
Any time anyone contacts a girl and said "Gee. I'd really like to see you but..." he is trying to con her.
"I'd like to see you, but you charge too much."
"I'd like to see you, but you ask too much info in your screening."
"I'd like to see you, but you don't have enough reviews."
It all comes down to the same thing. Offer me some special treatment and maybe I'll come see you.
You say she is a beginner. If she is not getting enough business and wants advice, then she will ask for it. But random guys reaching out like this? Nope. Just assholes.
I'm not gonna black list them but they were ultimately saying I'm too expensive but I want to see you for a discount in exchange for a good review. I don't like having to choose.
I wouldn't say the point of hobbling is to try someone new and exotic. In my opinion its for a drama free experience ,NSA!and safe. With that said that's the point of TER and reviews is To know who it is your meeting. Looks, experience,performance,ect. Everyone's experience is different but for the most part men want to know you fit your description in pics, bio,and that you provide what it is they are looking for. It's hard to get established but once you have a few reviews it's not an issue. I would ignore people emailing saying they would see you but.... That's just annoying.
Agreed!
You are right that there is no need for a hobbyist to point out your limited number of reviews. Everybody starts somewhere. If a hobbyist is not comfortable seeing you based on a pure number of reviews, then he should simply pass. There is no need for him to PM you and tell you he'd see you if only you had more reviews. It's a waste of everyone's time.
But understand that every hobbyist has their own standard of comfort level in determining whom to see. Yes, it is certainly wonderful meeting new and "exotic" ladies and there is a certain thrill meeting someone for the first time....that's an absolute benefit of the hobby. But TER reviews provide an invaluable service. The more reviews a lady has, the more confident a hobbyist is in the type of session he too will enjoy. It's not a case of relying solely on the opinion of others. In an often unpredictable hobby as this one, reviews can provide stability and legitimacy. Most hobbyists do not care about the real specifics of any one particular review. But they do care that enough reviews state what a session is like and that gives them the confidence to spend their hard earned cash on seeing someone.
At the end of the day, if you put yourself out there and keep active on the boards, your reviews will come. The more hobbyists get to know you through TER, there will be some men who will ultimately feel comfortable enough to see you despite your limited reviews. You'll eventually build up your credentials and then many more hobbyists will follow.
-- Modified on 8/5/2016 5:02:05 AM
I appreciate your feedback.
But understand that every hobbyist has their own standard of comfort level in determining whom to see. Yes, it is certainly wonderful meeting new and "exotic" ladies and there is a certain thrill meeting someone for the first time....that's an absolute benefit of the hobby. But TER reviews provide an invaluable service. The more reviews a lady has, the more confident a hobbyist is in the type of session he too will enjoy. It's not a case of relying solely on the opinion of others. In an often unpredictable hobby as this one, reviews can provide stability and legitimacy. Most hobbyists do not care about the real specifics of any one particular review. But they do care that enough reviews state what a session is like and that gives them the confidence to spend their hard earned cash on seeing someone.
At the end of the day, if you put yourself out there and keep active on the boards, your reviews will come. The more hobbyists get to know you through TER, there will be some men who will ultimately feel comfortable enough to see you despite your limited reviews. You'll eventually build up your credentials and then many more hobbyists will follow.
-- Modified on 8/5/2016 5:02:05 AM