I was a bit jaded since last time we tried to hook up she went AWOL on me, got a nice confirmation email today with an apology about last time though I hadn't mentioned it. So we will see. Just thought I would jump on the bandwagon with the OP since I was a bit ticked off at the same time he was.
they think their time is more important than yours. I used to think paying an assistant was a waste of money, now I think some providers could sure use a good one. I hate to have an appointment hanging. You tentatively set something up. You email to try to finalize, that doesn't work so you try to call and she won't return voice mail either. I don't get it.
A wise man once said, "I'll beg for pussy, I'll pay for pussy. But I won't beg to pay for pussy."
Maybe something is going on with "her" civi life. I'll give her the benefit of the doubt, but a call or email to say so would be nice
Most ladies I've had the pleasure of dealing with are pretty great communicators. But I'm in limbo right now, same girl forgot to text me back first time I tried and now I emailed yesterday for a date tommorow and now I'm sitting with the dilemma to give her more time or try someone else. I know what I should do but I'm a stickler for following through what I start even if others aren't.
I was a bit jaded since last time we tried to hook up she went AWOL on me, got a nice confirmation email today with an apology about last time though I hadn't mentioned it. So we will see. Just thought I would jump on the bandwagon with the OP since I was a bit ticked off at the same time he was.
One of my favs use to be available all the time for me, until a certain fucker started to shill for her everyday, now every time I attempt to book she's full. I always have a plan A,B,C, and D so I don't lose any sleep over it.
Some advice I got from the legend Mr. Fisher, that I will pass on to avoid time wasting. When you guys make your initial contact, and to confirm you set the deadline when you would like to hear back, for Example Sara our appointment is set for Thursday 8am, I would like you to confirm our date by email no latter than Wednesday 1:45 pm, if I don't hear back I will attempt to book u at another time.
This approach has been full proof for me and I haven't had my time wasted since.
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but at this point, not sure I give a damn. If she can't handle her biz no better than this, how do I know she wouldn't NCNS ?
Been doing this a long time (20 years, only got NCNS'd one time. Don't want to do that again. I have a last minute cancellation or 2, but hey...that's life. How much time does it take to reply to an email, send a text....something. Don't just drop off the face of the earth with no explanation.
"Is it so wrong, to be Human after all?" - Something About You by Level 42
Auto accidents, illnesses, 'periods', family emergencies... there are any number of Reasons (not Excuses) for a Provider to No Response/Reply on you other than being Flaky.
Yes, I understand that some folks are more flaky than others - but (like you) I try to give the benefit of the doubt.
If she doesn't reply in a few days - the sign of a good business woman - I'd think she's too flaky for me and I'd move on.
I've also had a couple of ladies convincingly claim good reasons when they did get around to my emails. I ended up having good times on a different dates.
So I agree with you: Be patient. All Will Be Well.