Last year I met a man through classified ads and we had lunch. He was 74 then and it was a nice time. We talked for hours much to the delight of our waitress I am sure lol but I enjoyed his company. He was a handsome man and I admit I had thoughts of seeing how he could pleasure me. He is not from Florida so he comes down during season. We had another date at night and I just knew I would get some tonguing or something so of course I shaved and was all prepared to enjoy a salacious time with my new mature friend but it didn't happen. OK. We talked and talked and yep just talked. He went back home a short time later.
So now this year he let me know last month he is returning. I was hoping maybe this time we could do something and in our phone conversation I finally brought it up and that's when I got the bad news. He told me that I am too young and that I am 41 he feels uncomfortable doing anything sexually with me!!!!! I explained that if he needs patience that's cool I am a patient woman and I won't rush him and even if he wants to take a pill I will wait it out with him. He said it's not that at all; just that I am too young. He actually had put an ad seeking ladies in their 70's and said that the absolute youngest lady he would accept would be 61 but me and my old man thing I answered. I told him in the initial email my age. I respect and understand it and my fantasies of riding his face are gone but are any of you guys like this? Is a woman out of her 20's and even 30's too young to mess around with??
I could bear to have a tall beautiful woman of color in her forties who would like to ride my face would like to ride my face actually ride my face? If I had the time I would be there tomorrow
I am asking if any guys over 60 would be uncomfortable with a woman in her 40's being sexual with them. This wasn't a relationship with him that I was seeking. It was for sex, yes I am being honest. I have heard older guys say they do not want to be with a woman their daughter's age but he is cute and he turns me on. Like I said I am respecting his desires but I do not want that to happen again, turned down for sex due to my age. I want you guys now lol
women 40 and over, just a personal comfort zone. However, if I met a woman in her 20s or 30s and she told me what you told him, my comfort zone would expand and I'd welcome her with open arms. If she told me what you just wrote, I would move to Florida full time
I really thought he would want to do something but again, his ad did say no younger than 60 so I was wrong for responding but I have no regrets. He is a nice guy that I will have dinner with again. I was wanting to seduce him and introduce him to ladies outside of his comfort range but I really will respect his wishes as far as the age.
I'm still a randy teenager waiting for my first shot at some.
In a word: no.
As a side, to hear your longings for us silver haired (what's left of it anyways) guys makes my heart go pitter-patter.
Thanks for an interesting man-bites-dog story. You must be an excellent conversationalist; a talent that is not often acknowledged, but is so wonderful to find.
And just so no one reading this gets the wrong idea: I see plenty of gals in or about my age, and love them all. I'm an equal opportunity roue
Were these paid hourly dinner dates? Or just civie, he buys the food, type dates?
The dynamic would be completely different between the two.
As for age, I'm in my 60's. I have no age restrictions except legal limits. You can't find that many older women still in the business. I think 53 was the oldest I've met (and she was pretty hot for her calendar age.)
All civilian outside of this industry. We met for lunch and he paid for it and we chatted on and on. We met and talked a lot but at each encounter, we both kept our clothes on (sigh).
Since it was civie, I think the guy is thinking a bit longer term ... wary of forming attachments etc in either direction.
There is a lot of societal pressure against older guys (old fools as they would be called) consorting with much younger women -- who would in turn be looked on as gold diggers.
Men hiring escorts is already mostly under the radar, so the societal thing doesn't really count. I don't think the same age considerations matter in the paid escort business as in the civie world.
Also, believe it or not, some older guys just don't have the same sex drive (or the same sex function) anymore. So everything is just for social companionship.
His deflection based on age difference might just be a cover for inability in that venue.
To young for me is under 18. I have seen women from 18 to 70 and I had a good time with all of them unless she had a shitty personality then age doesn't matter. I'm 75 and having the time of my life, I will hate to see it come to an end which I know it will sooner or later. But if I had to pick an age it would be women in their 40's.
... what really counts for me at 62, even in a provider/client situation, is some sort of intellectual connection. Of course, it's impossible to explore a woman's inner feelings in an hour or two, but you can generally make some sort of connection. But, as most of us realize, you have sex with what's between a woman's ears. I tend to connect with a brain generally 35 & up, although there have been notable exceptions over the years.
Never having had kids, I never thought of a much younger provider reminding a guy of his daughter or grand-daughter. That internal boundary may actually be closer to the truth in his case. I have had situations on business travel where a guy has either walked out of a strip club or simply hasn't gone because they said that the dancers reminded him of his daughter(s).
If any of you young ladies ever want to spend some time in the north Ga Mountains (it's beautiful this time of year) with a 65 year old guy who can guarantee at least two of hard wood at least every other day just let me know. You can stay here and I'm also a damn good cook.
myself... I don't have children of my own. As much as I love the looks of the 21+ group... I've been disappointed. I certainly would notreject a MILF or more for age reasons.
There are three ages of females (probably males too, but that is less interesting to me and less pertinent to this discussion.): kids, women, and old ladies. This is not numerical. I am 75 now and was between marriages in my 40s and early 50s and I dated a lot. I dated kids some of whom were in their late 20s and early 30s, women whose ages were very varied (I never went out with a kid more than a few times). I eventually got married to a women 15 years younger than me, I dated women much younger than me, some my age and a few older than me. (I enjoyed the company of a provider in her early 60s when I was in my mid 60s.) and I met some old ladies also: some younger than me, some older, and some my age.(I never went out more than a few times with old ladies.) I am not interested in kids or in old ladies and i love the company of women. The years don't matter as much as the person and her more profound 'age'
I prefer the youngest females. I have a beautiful mature wife at home (I'm 69, she's 68). So when I'm dating I want something different, I want the fantasy. I routinely seek out the you gest ones I can find and this year dated two 19 year olds.
Someone previously mentioned that and I believe it is true. He told me he is thinking of moving to Florida full time so I would understand him wanting someone in his age range. I was looking for sex so I can definitely see why he rebuffed my sexual suggestions. I know it would be beyond awkward if we were to go out and people assume he is my patient and I am his care taker! There is a lot of that in FL, black medical women and their white older patients. I mean how awful that someone were to refer to him as my charge! I get it. We can still chill and have lunch and dinner but I can at least have my fantasies of the two of us putting our mouths on each other. That I am not giving up on. Oh well. Moving on to the next old man whose pants I want to get into lol!!! :
if simultaneously, does that qualify as dating a 38 year old...? just asking
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I prefer the youngest females. I have a beautiful mature wife at home (I'm 69, she's 68). So when I'm dating I want something different, I want the fantasy. I routinely seek out the you gest ones I can find and this year dated two 19 year olds.
I did see a 20 year old one time that really turned me on but after a few substandard experiences with a few 20 somethings I am sticking to right around 30 and up.
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I told him in the initial email my age. I respect and understand it and my fantasies of riding his face are gone but are any of you guys like this? Is a woman out of her 20's and even 30's too young to mess around with??
