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I visited a provider many years ago who had a porn DVD playing when I walked into her incall.  It kind of helped get in the mood wile we chatted and got to know each other (and moved into the bedroom).  What do the ladies and guys on this forum think?  Interesting or distracting?  Specially for the providers who also do porn films .. I would not mind starting a session seeing one of their movies!

Having had a few experiences with porn stars, I can honestly say that video during a session is more distracting than inspiring. Especially if you ask a few mundane questions.
1) Why watch when you can live it? I prefer watching & Feeling her POV BJ rather than watch & imagine what it feels like. Feeling is believing, much moreso than seeing.
2) More than one PS have said they prefer non-video hobby sex b/c it feels better. The cinematography alone can make video experiences more uncomfortable than pleasurable since the good stuff is closer with little if any room for a lens. Add to that, the size of bigger guys  needed tonfit in the lens actually makes good ball slapping her clit doggie style so painful those guys have to be more gentle (or risk bruising the lady internally). One case where average guys actually win.
 Gave me a whole new perspective on porn, and making more than a selfie still pic seem ridiculous in a way.
Still, porn is video confirmation of what she's willing to do under the right circumstances in the past.
I'd rather focus on her in the here and now.

My 2 cents, ga_kosh

Posted By: ga_kosh
Having had a few experiences with porn stars, I can honestly say that video during a session is more distracting than inspiring. Especially if you ask a few mundane questions.  
 1) Why watch when you can live it? I prefer watching & Feeling her POV BJ rather than watch & imagine what it feels like. Feeling is believing, much moreso than seeing.  
 2) More than one PS have said they prefer non-video hobby sex b/c it feels better. The cinematography alone can make video experiences more uncomfortable than pleasurable since the good stuff is closer with little if any room for a lens. Add to that, the size of bigger guys  needed tonfit in the lens actually makes good ball slapping her clit doggie style so painful those guys have to be more gentle (or risk bruising the lady internally). One case where average guys actually win.  
  Gave me a whole new perspective on porn, and making more than a selfie still pic seem ridiculous in a way.  
 Still, porn is video confirmation of what she's willing to do under the right circumstances in the past.  
 I'd rather focus on her in the here and now.  
   
 My 2 cents, ga_kosh

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I find it distracting-I am fine with music in the background to block out other sounds but not beyond that-no TV-No video's, just background music...

The average guy is just not that big! I for one am just very average......not small but average! Those porn guys make most guys feel small and that can be intimidating.

For something that's  PSE -  porn is appropriate - and a lot of fun.  Sort of like having your own orgy.  Yes - it can be distracting - but in a fun way...  Cock Hero is a LOT of fun with something like that.  And  - my gosh - yes if you are seeing a porn star - it makes a lot of sense to see one of her flicks in session.  That's why you are there, after all, paying premium bucks for her...

When it gets too distracting - turn it off....

For GFE - or if you want something a little more relaxing - such as a little wine, some seduction, a little nookie, very sensual and slow - it really isn't appropriate

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unless you've known your partner a while. Most porn these days is like watching a side show or a circus, the intensity is beyond realistic

I'm in the "I find it distracting" camp generally speaking.  I want the lady focused on me (and I on her).

I will say that porn has its place however - under the right circumstances.  A while back I was seeing a lady (we were regular friends).  She told me that she watched porn sometime and we talked about that and what she was into.  I asked her to bookmark a couple of videos that she thought were hot so we could check them out next time I saw her.  And when I saw her again we got on the bed and she fired up her laptop and we started watching some videos that she really liked, while she... enjoyed herself with me.  It was really hot and nice for a few reasons:

    It started the date off with a bang.  :-)
    I got to see some of the things that really turned her on.  Sometimes it's easier to show someone something than have to explain it in words.
    It ultimately led us to bring some things into the bedroom that I didn't know she was into (and I probably wouldn't have thought to ask).

Bear in mind this was someone I knew well and she was open to sharing these kind of things about herself to me.  And it's one step away from that roleplay of walking in to someone enjoying themselves to their favorite porn vid - which I think is hot.

Wouldn't you rather concentrate on having most fun with the lady you are with, rather someone mechanically fucking on the screen?

do whatever they are doing.  Repeat as necessary.  Clearly more for the PSE-inclined ladies and gents.

Posted By: jbob0099
I visited a provider many years ago who had a porn DVD playing when I walked into her incall.  It kind of helped get in the mood wile we chatted and got to know each other (and moved into the bedroom).  What do the ladies and guys on this forum think?  Interesting or distracting?  Specially for the providers who also do porn films .. I would not mind starting a session seeing one of their movies!

Instant Replay . . . on your own !

Once upon a time, this provider recorded part of our session on my smart-phone.
It was our half time entertainment and commentary.  Second half was even better. Universal smart-phone holder with a flexible mini tripod made this possible.  So this thing can stand on uneven surfaces and even grab on to poles.  And, oh the hard copies.  I love technology.   So back to your regularly scheduled program or app!

Play safe and fair,
BonneChance

PS: Paronomasia inferences withheld.  A special thanks and credit to the creative naughty provider for bringing it up

I had the same experience. I went to visit a Gent at his hotel suite and he had porn playing in both rooms. It was a great scene so I found it erotic. I had seen him before so I was comfortable enough to have a couple drinks with him and get real kinky.

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