I like music in the session because it allows me to concentrate, however, it strange because I also play the piano and trying to cut the switch on and off of listening. However, I Like R&b, Neo soul, jazz, blues, soft rock, alittle classical, and some alternative music, but it needs to allow me to concentrate.

I think to Pearlie on this had a session made supe exotic by a cd of indochina type music. Can't really describe it but it made me feel like when I walked out the door I would be walking out to a street in singapoor or bangkok or saigon or something.

I agree with foguete "whatever suits the woman's vibe".  I want the lady to be happy and relaxed and I know girls like their tunes.  Also it's a nice way of getting to know something about her - as in what kind of music she likes listening too.  Unless she is only playing stuff she thinks I would like to hear - which would be a funny twist. LOL.  Good thing I have very eclectic tastes in music.

Interestingly, I've only had a few girls ever ask me what I wanted to listen to.  Which was thoughtful.  My answer was that I wanted them to put on what they like to listen to - just to please keep the volume to a respectable level so we can still converse.  I suppose there is a bit of a catch 22 for me - I want the lady to focus on me and not the fact that her favorite song is playing, however.  As long as the music sets the mood but doesn't detract her attention it's all good.

But that's for vanilla romantic dates.  If we are role playing I prefer no music so we can focus on the scene (unless music ties in with the role play - for example a stripper lap dance fantasy).  

An interesting...

...and amusing read!
According to this link, I'm a selective but slutty, nerdy guy that's a good person.