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jazz32 24 Reviews 1846 reads
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Good Luck!

cumcummer2728 reads

I have found need to head UTR and need some guidance as to how to do so, while maintaining hard-earned reputation.  I have thought about emailing or PMing the gentlemen I already see, to give them a heads up, but I realized that too many people talk way too much (not on purpose, they just do) and it is not likely that I have my identity remain private for very long that way.

I am thinking my only real way to do this is to start straight from scratch and work my way up again... any thoughts?

Um, signing off is a mystery ;)

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mrfisher1661 reads

in just the last year.  In each case, they knew that they could email or even call me without any problem.

It is a dicey situation, but I think that they would appreciate it if you did send an email and tell them that while you won't be advertising for a while, you want them to know that you are there for them if and when they want to get together.

There's a chance that someone may feel put out by being contacted, but better to have the chance to say something and apologize rather than wonder what ever became of good old cumcummer.

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cumcummer1659 reads

However, I think you missed my question.

You see, people like to talk, not to harm anyone, but just, I don't know, to prove they know something, or just in passing.  I am going UTR because I have a stalker, and need to avoid him finding out where I am.  The last time I went UTR - someone revealed information to someone else, and so on and so on, and alas, the "stalker" got my new information... you see my problem?

I need to find another way, but likely, I will just have to start from complete scratch and people will have to wonder whatever happened to cumgirl. :(

-- Modified on 5/25/2007 3:27:13 PM

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Hollys Hobby1214 reads

Is your stalker hobby related or personal life related?  How many of your clients know each other and could talk to each other about you going UTR?

Your best bet is to contact Dangerzone 411 and give them a chance to help you.

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jazz321847 reads

on the Provider's Only board.

Good Luck!

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mrfisher1517 reads

you should contact the police and get a restraining order against them if you can identify him.

Police don't care whether you are a provider or not in these cases.  They just want to get a potential felon off the streets and avoid a serious crime.

In the meantime, only reveal yourself to those who you are very close to and trust implicitly.  Changing your name is also a good idea.  This is what one of the provider I still see did and for the very same reason as you have.

Contacting Dangerzone911 is also a very good idea.

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