Seems like you're asking how much to pay her? I think you'll want to settle in advance how much adult fun you're going to have and when. Then figure out the payment based on that...
Have fun!!We know each other's real names.
She's low drama, easy to be with before, during, and after.
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Thinking about doing a Sat Noon to Sunday 4pm with a SB I've seen quite a few times.
We know each other's real names.
She's low drama, easy to be with before, during, and after.
Wondering how your experiences have gone.
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That was in the afternoon. We swapped the bike for the car and drove downtown, strolled around some trendy shops and I bought her a few trinkets. Then we went out to dinner at one of my favorite eateries. After that we went back home and had awesome sex. We slept, had breakfast and coffee,the next morning, and by the time I drove her back home we had spent a whole 24 hours together. I don't know if that's the kind of trip you were thinking about but it was really fun from start to finish.
and others where even an hour was too long.
It all depends on your "chemistry" together. A 28 hour date is not exactly like a two week trip to Europe, but it does require that you at least "like" each other more than is necessary for a simple 2 hour BCD date.
I treat all dates, whether they be civvy, SB or Hooker dates pretty much the same. Just have a good time.
I did notice you said "trip" and not "date" Are we to assume you are taking her somewhere?
It does depend on chemistry. We get along very easily. But, we've only spent 6-7 hours max. But, I think it's low risk.
We're meeting on the road, flying in from different locations.
We're in a spot that will be sunny, warm, and good food and drink. Should be fun.
It all depends on your "chemistry" together. A 28 hour date is not exactly like a two week trip to Europe, but it does require that you at least "like" each other more than is necessary for a simple 2 hour BCD date.
I treat all dates, whether they be civvy, SB or Hooker dates pretty much the same. Just have a good time.
I did notice you said "trip" and not "date" Are we to assume you are taking her somewhere?
I do "extended" type dates all the time. For several months I was seeing an SB for dates of about 24 hours every weekend. We'd meet early Friday afternoon and I'd take her home either late Saturday morning or early Saturday afternoon depending on how late we slept in.
As others have said before. Extended dates are just one of the perks of being in the Sugar world as opposed to the hooker world. Twenty four hour dates in the hooker world run from the very low end at maybe two grand to upwards of five grand for the higher priced girls. I gave my SB two to three hundred for our overnight dates and she was VERY happy with the arrangement.
Seems like you're asking how much to pay her? I think you'll want to settle in advance how much adult fun you're going to have and when. Then figure out the payment based on that...
Have fun!!
We know each other's real names.
She's low drama, easy to be with before, during, and after.
Wondering how your experiences have gone.
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It's 1.5 times a normal evening dinner date.
In terms of provide, i mean special touches, trinkets, etc.
Have fun!!
We know each other's real names.
She's low drama, easy to be with before, during, and after.
Wondering how your experiences have gone.
-- Modified on 2/26/2017 7:14:23 PM
You aren't "obligated" to do anything, but it's always a nice gesture (and a way to make sure she enjoys herself and wants to do it again) to do at least a little shopping with her. Women of all ages, shapes and sizes like to shop and you don't have to go overboard, a few bucks spent on knick knacks, t shirts or whatever as keepsakes of the weekend tend to go a long way with a girl.
Just make sure there are no Gucci, LV or Chanel shops around. lol
Just make sure there are no Gucci, LV or Chanel shops around. lol
On a recent weekend trip we had a lot of fun and sex. We had a great time eating out and doing other fun stuff. It was all included in the monthly allowance. But we went to very nice restaurants and I did buy her some gifts.
The most surprising part is that sometimes she insisted on paying for drinks and coffee. The wonders of sugar world.
So here is what I have to say: I have two I have talked into per visit so as not to create an issue. I told them I want to take them out on dates and told them there will only be one. If you allow BCD then our terms stand but if I take you out on the town that will be on me. I told them a test drive if you will. No BCD during the interview stage. I told the older one mid 20's the other is a college girl and the college girl the other is a professional (both are civies). I told them I have a business trip to LA and wanted company. I would only take the one I enjoyed my time with the most. I ended up taking the college girl. She was more fun and I enjoyed being with her the most. Both 21, so I could enjoy as well. When it came time I made a choice and the deal was as such. I would. It start and allowance u Gil trip concluded. She could either go Dutch on the trip barring hotel and times she ate with me or I could pay her a lump sum of $750.00 payable upon arriving at the hotel in LA. She agreed. I told her if we had fun could stand each other after the trip we could discuss monthly the following week.
I arrived early on Tuesday she arrived that evening (different plane tickets are necessary in my opinion). Had a car waiting on her at the airport with a dress I wanted her to wear to dinner. She got to the hotel showered and prepared for the evening. I left an envelope with her "spending money " at the hotel. She meet me with expectations and excitement. She said she felt like on the bachelor. She obviously never gone out to a formal night on the town. All went well she got carded every where and I got many looks envy from men and disdain from women my age. The next day I paid the salon in the hotel to teach her how to properly make up and style her hair. She spend the day at the pool and even though she had access to the spa and other hotel charges she did not spend a dine.. only lunch.. I came home she was happy we stayed in and she showed her appreciation. The next day I had a car take her to LA art museum and meet her for dinner at the Getti for dinner. She looked great in heals, jeans and light make up, which she bought herself... all went well. Last test was when she asked to go to rodeo dr our last night.... thought it may be a bad Idea but why not. Window shopped, she hinted at a few things and I mentioned how that would blow through her spending money and was it really worth it. Turns she got the message and that was that. She left back for Texas and I took the later flight so as to not arrive at the same time.
Had a great time and figured out a few things I hate about her. I also found some things I like. It would have taken a longer time to find out. She feels like I am awesome now and has verifiably left SA. I will see her again next week and I have made my decision. All in all I spent $750.00 spending money, $580.00 on her (most of which was dress and professional stylist) and $450.00.(about) on airfare. Hotel and food was about the same as I would have spent on my own. Myself would have only gone to high end restaurants and bars and strippers, this turned out to be cheaper and more fun. Gave her a proposed expectation of what I will offer her as a salary.
My opinion is to play them against each other the same way they play you. If they want $2k salary offer then 1k etc and use the trip as a carrot. Let's be honest 1 or 2 times a year is more than they do and you will allow them to be at a better place and better amenities than they can. If they can't or don't want to go then drop them, they will realize you are not limited like they think. This also weeds out the pros etc. My final arrangement is $750 for 3/4 times a month with at least one real date. My choosing. I only do morning- early afternoons so art museums and similar places make it cheap for me. I made Shute she can host or there is no deal. Limited texting between 10 am and 4 pm. O weekend contact and any issues she may have are her issues... no broken cars etc. I will bring the bottle of bourbon I like for our use only and if she gets a BF I need to know for hygiene purposes... All in all the trip went well. If she tries to negotiate I can give a little but otherwise I got my monies worth so far. Have not ended it with mid 20's girl. If they accepts them I will if. It I have mother trip to Chicago and same deal will happen. I like the college girl mostly because of scheduling availability and naïveté.
I feel I did great I had a great trip and it may be on oddity but worked for me... look forward to learn what worked for the rest of you....
plugged in. What more can a man ask for . Took her shopping 150
dollars in a good Will Store and a Dirt Cheap brand store. She loves her SD too.