...This may not quite qualify for what I'm about to say but it's so close I'll say it anyway.
I will beg for pussy. I will pay for pussy. I will not beg to pay for pussy.
I have been trying to see a well reviewed provider but it has been frustrating. She has the most extensive process to get verified that I have ever been thru. I understand this and don't have a problem with it but when I was trying to get verified it took her assistant a long time to get back with me to let me know if I had been verified or not. Our first meeting was gone before the assistant let me know that she I had not been verified. Luckily I didn't wait around and made another appointment with someone else.
Now that I have been verified we have confirmed a day and time but the length of the session is in question. Once again I have tried to contact the assistant to confirm this detail but have gotten no response. I would expect a lot better from a provider of this caliber. What is the best way to approach this situation?
Sdd like a hassle but Gotta know when to walk; the time you've wasted you ain't getting back
The bad thing about that is providers don't like to have their time wasted. I can understand that. If you start booking with several at once that means you will need to cancel with some of them and they won't like that at all. IMHO, it is best to have a time in mind when to pull the trigger and call someone else. If the original provider does happen to get back to you at the last minute then it is their own fault. But that is my humble opinion.
it goes both ways.....many ladies double book to guarantee they're gonna get an appointment (and income) from someone.
...it will get one of them pissed at you and word would get around. Not what you want.
...This may not quite qualify for what I'm about to say but it's so close I'll say it anyway.
I will beg for pussy. I will pay for pussy. I will not beg to pay for pussy.
I will beg for pussy. I will pay for pussy. I will not beg to pay for pussy.
Amen to that xyz !!!
Big fucking deal.
What is the point of the post?
What is the point of the post?
and you want advise on approaching a person known only to you.
My advise, move on if no
Good luck to you dude
and you want advise on approaching a person known only to you.
My advise, move on if no
Good luck to you dude
And it's thorns will prick just the same.
I think what several people are telling you is that it isn't going to get any better. If you want to have fun in the hobby you have to throw out a lot of lines.
Indies are especially challenging. The individual lady has to balance the admin and the session. If they are highly reviewed, they get to pick and be very selective often balancing new clients with an impressive list of repeat customers.
Some are just extremely disorganized
Some believe silence is better than a rejection because it prevents you from debating
But you control your own hobby success
That is why we say
Move o
I think what several people are telling you is that it isn't going to get any better. If you want to have fun in the hobby you have to throw out a lot of lines.
Indies are especially challenging. The individual lady has to balance the admin and the session. If they are highly reviewed, they get to pick and be very selective often balancing new clients with an impressive list of repeat customers.
Some are just extremely disorganized
Some believe silence is better than a rejection because it prevents you from debating
But you control your own hobby success
That is why we say
Move on
One reason I tend to use agencies, is contact is easier and you usually have a few options if choice 1 is not available.
With indies, your best vet is to prequalify with several. Let them know up front you are trying to make future scheduling cleaner. This will shorten time when actively scheduling.
If you build a dance card of favorites then you can almost set up a schedule.
It's okay to request scheduling options from several ladies, but once you commit to a time let the others know. If two come back positive politely suggest an alternative day or time, it's a scheduling conflict.
How long you wait is up to you. I have similar thread below around how long you should tolerate a late start. The answer is it depends.
At the end of the day, it's your call. You are the buyer. It's your time and your money. If she does not reply within your shopping window, no guilt, no harm, no foul. You just move on. If she comes back positive, pick a new date.
Happy hobbying
With indies, your best vet is to prequalify with several. Let them know up front you are trying to make future scheduling cleaner. This will shorten time when actively scheduling.
If you build a dance card of favorites then you can almost set up a schedule.
It's okay to request scheduling options from several ladies, but once you commit to a time let the others know. If two come back positive politely suggest an alternative day or time, it's a scheduling conflict.
How long you wait is up to you. I have similar thread below around how long you should tolerate a late start. The answer is it depends.
At the end of the day, it's your call. You are the buyer. It's your time and your money. If she does not reply within your shopping window, no guilt, no harm, no foul. You just move on. If she comes back positive, pick a new date.
Happy hobbying
Nothing has context. It is butterfly flapping its wings in Bali.
As far as moving on is concerned, you are hopeless otherwise you would have moved on already instead of whining.
As far as moving on is concerned, you are hopeless otherwise you would have moved on already instead of whining.
No whining here although that is your perception. But riddle me this: is it any better complaining about a providers assistant that doesn't communicate or whining about what someone posts on the internet?
I see you have met our village idiot.
Pay no attention to Fungus, he is in a perpetual bad mood, and has been for years.
As for your OP, I have limits on how many hoops I will jump through to get laid, no matter how hot or how fantastic the lady is in bed. Everyone's limits are different, but it sounds like you are reaching yours. It could be the providers fault and the "booker" is only following her bosses instructions, or it could just be a very inefficient booker and the lady herself might not even know that her booker is causing issues for her.
I would suggest that if there is a way to get a message directly to the lady in question without having it go through the booker, you might bring this to her attention, for her own good if nothing else, but I will concede that might not even be possible, in which case my only advice would be to move on to a woman that you can actually schedule with.
Our little Fungus seems to always be in a bad mood. I guess he wakes up, looks in the mirror and realizes that today, just like every other day for him, is going to be a bad one. No wonder he is always in a foul mood.
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I was not suggesting "double booking." I was just suggesting that he initiate conversation + Then, go with the provider who responds fastest. To me, "booking is complete," when I have the client's date and time and identifying details. We have agreed on a date and time to met. That is when "the deal is sealed" with me. However, if the client is just initiating contact and asking general questions, I don't take that as a "real appointment" on the books !!!
...please explain exactly what you meant if not that.
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Gretchen. Here is some hopefully helpful advice
1). Use the URL link below to include your ad on every post. If people like your post they may follow the hook to your ad
2). Join the provider only board. The ladies here have an active back channel support system
3). Not sure why your name does not include your profile access, at the top. Probably means you have an inactive profile or no reviews. I would review or create your profile by contacting ter support to get this link fixed. Many of guys actively use your name link to the profile to learn about you.
4). Never under estimate how lazy some of us are. Every post may trigger us to want to know more about you. Make it very very simple
that her name was mentioned on the TER forum. There's a great provider who's just terrible at communication. Awful. If I need to get an answer to question such as "are we meeting tomorrow", and she's not responding, I'll just send her a text telling her that her name was mentioned. She'll get back to me in under 60 seconds.