Newbie - FAQ
An example for all you new hobbyists as to how not to contact a woman!! Geez, I can't even believe this.
I received an initial email as follows:
"saw ur info on hoh, u avail now?"
Hmm.. First off, I'm not in high school; I'm an adult. I would think you could take an extra ten seconds to write complete sentences and spell words correctly..? Second, who are you? And why would you think I could drop everything at 11:30 pm to meet a stranger with no screening info?
I responded politely, asking him to read my website and go through the proper channels for screening and scheduling, and he responded:
i live in ____
i am new to this
i am not law enforcement
To which I responded politely, I don't think I can help you. I did point him this way, and gave a few pointers for future contacts with providers, but honestly!!
Incidentally, I have received several such responses through HorH.. is this a trend? I just put my ad on there per someone's suggestion, as it seems to be more active for my area, but am wondering if that was not a good move!? At least the men who have contacted me through TER have been exceptionally polite and even the newbies have the sense to read my site and give proper introduction.. must be doing something right here!
Anyways, just something to keep in mind, as you want to make the lady feel comfortable and respected (and not have to prod you with thirty questions to get the proper information, lol)
XoXo,
Marea
Thanks graydon, would love to see you in the Mad-city!
I agree- Not only are they polite, but I love it when a man mentions TER in an initial contact- puts me at ease, gives me an idea of the process and channels through which new clients are finding my services, etc. Plus it tells me that they have some basic knowledge as to how to go about things and have likely read my reviews, giving them a pretty accurate picture of what they can expect from me during our session. Always a good idea to mention TER when contacting a new lady! Also, I'm a pretty talkative I suppose, but I like it when the person writing includes more information rather than less- obviously you don't need to write an essay, and perhaps some providers prefer a shorter email and straight to the point- but my take is that a couple sentences letting her know who you are, what you are like, or complimenting her on her reviews or photos never hurt anyone! It's hard to get a feel for someone's attitude or intentions when they write one sentence (although I suppose their actual intentions are pretty clear... 
XoXo,
Marea