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Forced into retirement
hljockey 2 Reviews 2336 reads
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I was forced into early retirement a short while ago and now I think I might be forced into the same thing with hobbying. I made three attempts at scheduling a session yesterday with the following results...

1.) Last OKAY on P411 was more than 6 months old so I was told I would have to provide my identity including place of employment. I told her I have no place of employment and she told me adios.

2.) I take a chance and schedule a session with a lady with no reviews advertising on EROS. I gave her my P411 number if she has access and she said she checked it out and it was okay. I looked and she did not check it out but I discovered the reason she didn't. She was the same provider I had seen before but had changed her name and all the photos in her ad. I said I thought it was dishonest not to tell me that and that I'm going to cancel and she gets very upset with me.

3.) I schedule with a lady I have wanted to see for a long time but when I wake up this morning I have a sore throat and a runny nose. I am tempted to go any way but I decide it probably isn't something she would like me to share with her so I send her a text message early in the morning to cancel. She responds with an angry rant about how this was the fourth time I had canceled on her and never to contact her again. I replied that she must have me confused with somebody else because I had never scheduled an appointment with her before but I would definitely follow her wish to not contact her ever again.

So now I'm hoping one of these ladies will blackball me and force me into retirement from the hobby for my own good. I'll take up fishing instead.

But don't let it get you down.....there are plenty of other providers out there that would appreciate you.

I called around until I found someone who was on P411 and would see me.  She gave me an OK that got me more dates and these got me more OKs

...if you had written reviews throughout the time (years?), you would have a "paper trail" you could present to the gals you wish to see. All the gals want to remain safe and this is one way to do it. There are other ways to make these gals feel comfortable with you but it may take some time, effort, and money on your part, and I assume you are being facetious in hoping to be blackballed

hobby...  it takes a little longer & you might have to jump through more hoops.  It's almost like starting over so look for someone who is "newbie friendly" because they might be more flexible.  If they say no, just move on...

Every one is focusing on item#1 of my rant where I couldn't see a travelling lady because her agency scheduler said my last Okay on P411 was too old.  

Items # 2 and 3 were about scheduled sessions with ladies that didn't turn out so well, so actually getting a date isn't the major problem. It was just a frustrating 24 hour day and I was ranting.

I had a lot frustrations when I first started out too. One lady I really wanted to see required two references first so I asked if there was anybody she could recommend. Kind of weird that  I was supposed to go see somebody who didn't require references before I could see one that did.

Saltwater, Freshwater, Fly, or Ice ?

Had my first go at saltwater fishing on a friend's boat about 25 miles out to sea last weekend. At one point early in the morning they were biting as fast as I could reel them in without even changing bait. I caught some pretty decent sized grouper and also a hammerhead shark. Hadn't fished since I was a kid but I think I'm hooked now, though I have a lot to learn.

...good idea too.  To continue with the fishing theme, he can hang with mrfisher and get his leftovers - like a pilot fish or remora swim with sharks.

I love fishing, Mrfisher,  swimming with the fish, fish for dinner;  
     I have my fishing hat on, let's go.

Why don't you see one of the girls who gave you a "Like" on P411? You could say it's been a long time but I'm still the same guy   :)   She would then most likely be willing to update it. I'm pretty sure the ladies can change their "Likes" to make them current.

A few years ago, I was on an extended hiatus from the hobby for a couple of years. On my return, it was like being a newbie all over again, since I had no employer or recent provider references.  Luckily, I opted for lifetime memberships with RS2K and DateCheck back when I was active in the hobby which helped in my case.

Anyways, along with TER, RS2K, DateCheck, and being more selective in which providers to contact, I didn't have any problems getting screened and setting up appointments.  I initially looked for newbie friendly providers, then explained my situation to them when I made first contact, and I didn't get rejected.

I know some providers have a lot of rules when it comes to screening, so don't let that discourage you too much.  If she isn't comfortable with your P411 status and whatever other screening info you might be able to provide, just do more research and move on to the next provider.

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Find out if there is a Meet & Greet in your area-do what you have to so that you are on the invitation list and go !

to know who you might like to spend BCD time with. Once the organizers screen you, that will be a plus for any provider attending. The biggest advantage to meeting providers at a M & G is you are not relying on photos on a website that could be outdated, altered, etc.

ATLDAWG437 reads

What market do you live in or hobby in ?  Someone might be able to offer you a recommendation.  I notice your only review is from a gal in Tampa....I know a gal in Tampa that would probably see you...

Yes, I'm in the Tampa area.

Actually the point of my post wasn't primarily about not being able to get a provider to see me. That was only number one of my list of three frustrations in a 24 hour period and it only pertained to one particular visiting lady I wanted to see. Although the oldest was six months ago I have about a dozen Okay's on P411 and whenever anyone checks the references out, they always tell me the ladies have good things to say about me.  

But if you have a recommendation, I'm all ears.  

Posted By: ATLDAWG
What market do you live in or hobby in ?  Someone might be able to offer you a recommendation.  I notice your only review is from a gal in Tampa....I know a gal in Tampa that would probably see you...

Guy,

I don't belong to P411, Date Check or anything. Never have  
Have only been turned down by one provider.  
I just explain my age, make a little small talk so she realizes I'm a legit client.  
Often I've used the TER PM feature and that helps.

Getting back in has been difficult.   I have been on TER for years and fortunately, Jimmy PW, here in Atlanta remembered me and still had a record of when I used to attend his Meet and Greets, so I was able to get back on the list.  This will help a lot.  I also was able to contact my ATF in Vegas and she remembered me as well, so I am slowly getting back into the game.  I was not able to get accepted by a lady here in Atlanta last week though, so it is not always easy, especially since I am now self-employed.  I will have a new review on my Vegas lady soon

Made a date with a very sexy lady. Got myself ready and popped the pill. No answer on the phone and hour before or after the appointment time.

And it's raining so I can't go fishing.

Posted By: hljockey
I was forced into early retirement a short while ago and now I think I might be forced into the same thing with hobbying. I made three attempts at scheduling a session yesterday with the following results...  
   
 1.) Last OKAY on P411 was more than 6 months old so I was told I would have to provide my identity including place of employment. I told her I have no place of employment and she told me adios.  
   
 2.) I take a chance and schedule a session with a lady with no reviews advertising on EROS. I gave her my P411 number if she has access and she said she checked it out and it was okay. I looked and she did not check it out but I discovered the reason she didn't. She was the same provider I had seen before but had changed her name and all the photos in her ad. I said I thought it was dishonest not to tell me that and that I'm going to cancel and she gets very upset with me.  
   
 3.) I schedule with a lady I have wanted to see for a long time but when I wake up this morning I have a sore throat and a runny nose. I am tempted to go any way but I decide it probably isn't something she would like me to share with her so I send her a text message early in the morning to cancel. She responds with an angry rant about how this was the fourth time I had canceled on her and never to contact her again. I replied that she must have me confused with somebody else because I had never scheduled an appointment with her before but I would definitely follow her wish to not contact her ever again.  
   
 So now I'm hoping one of these ladies will blackball me and force me into retirement from the hobby for my own good. I'll take up fishing instead.

Yeah, I can see them all crying themselves to sleep but they'll get over it in time.

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