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Whambamthankyoumaam 586 reads
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do some providers make announcements when they retire ? Most provider I see, just disappear.

Any girls that have tasted sex for $$$ will never retire fully unless they are in their grave.

Either they come back as a different persona, go in a different route ( SD ) , make back room deals, or marry for $$$  
That mentality will never go.

Seeing that her rates are pretty up there and review on her real looks varies, her business is most likely slow.    

So for most providers they are left with 2 choices:
Lower their rates and previous clients will see and feel they got ripped off/scam/ pay a premium for nothing, she definitely won't be doing any refunding right?

So 2nd option stay low for a while, take some new photos and come back as someone new, with lower rates.  

 
Seeing that you guys never seen them face to face, their tattoos are all airbrushed off,  and many providers have your full name, contact info and other personal data, chances of you happening to book with the new persona and lower rate ( VERY UNLIKELY ) .  So chances of you ever finding you pay a premium for someone who really not worth that $$$$ is going to be slim.

Once a girl go over 600 or 700, you better be able to find a way to track them, because you are likely paying a unsustainable premium they charge for services which is no different any lower.

 
Not to mention there is also providers her who would never dare do half hours, or have a little lower rare, or screen less, however lord and behold they offer different standards on that other escort ad site that's starts with a "B"
Sometimes you people on TER/P411 are getting the worst end of the stick

ClitWorshiper469 reads

Once a girl go over 600 or 700, you better be able to find a way to track them, because you are likely paying a unsustainable premium they charge for services which is no different any lower.

ClitWorshiper667 reads

There's no such thing as $300 Pussy and $1,000 Pussy. There are $300 clients and $1k clients

$300 "pussy" can afford to provide you a basic room (especially in NYC) and some moutwash. $1,000 can afford a fabulous suite, quality products (toys, lingerie, etc), toiletries of your own, good snacks and drinks, candles, specific wardrobe requests, time off to avoid burnout etc etc.

Maybe you don't value that, and that's fine. But it's not as simple as the "golden pussy syndrome". It is expensive to do this, and especially in areas where our costs are more across the board, wanting to make it an experience beyond the basics can add up fast. It's not about the pussy, it's about the service. And the price point everyone picks is just where they've found their happy medium.  

As a side note, I think it says far more about those who root against people than those who pay or charge any amount...

This is very true Charlie and I appreciate your comments!

Posted By: OhCharlie
$300 "pussy" can afford to provide you a basic room (especially in NYC) and some moutwash. $1,000 can afford a fabulous suite, quality products (toys, lingerie, etc), toiletries of your own, good snacks and drinks, candles, specific wardrobe requests, time off to avoid burnout etc etc.  
   
 Maybe you don't value that, and that's fine. But it's not as simple as the "golden pussy syndrome". It is expensive to do this, and especially in areas where our costs are more across the board, wanting to make it an experience beyond the basics can add up fast. It's not about the pussy, it's about the service. And the price point everyone picks is just where they've found their happy medium.  
   
 As a side note, I think it says far more about those who root against people than those who pay or charge any amount...

We decided on a monogamous relationship hence the retirement. I'm not saying ill never be back but, goodbye for now!

twelvestringguitar685 reads

until that relationship ends, or starts to wane.

Is something wrong with that?

Posted By: twelvestringguitar
until that relationship ends, or starts to wane.

Should just start offering MFM/MMF play =P I'm totally down if that ever happens!

do some providers make announcements when they retire ? Most provider I see, just disappear.

Saying goodbye could be sentimental or just announcing the inevitable what happened thread? I felt it wa sentimental. I was never stating I won't be back but, for now I'm saying goodbye.  

Posted By: Whambamthankyoumaam
do some providers make announcements when they retire ? Most provider I see, just disappear.

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Just wondering since you announced your retirement the other day does your BF know your running a come an visit special you posted on the ad boards the other day?

Why r u in the hobby?  
Shitty sex with your wife? ... maybe it's you who brought that on;
Just a Cheater? Always have, always will;
Only women that enjoy sex with you need to be paid to do so?
Judged by a jury of her peers? Don't think so. Why all the negative comments.  

Maybe your mama didn't teach y'all manners. This isn't a review for a poor performance, it's a decision on what she wants to do with HER life. MYOFB.  

If I was a provider, I'd note your opinions about women.  
And when judging, just remember ... "birds of a feather ..

Haha, no, we are not all jerks in NY. The jerks are just the most vocal.

So she was out fucking guys for money while in a relationship with him

He invites her to move in and she quits providing

Looks like he will be in for a whole lot of regret later on.

No worries she will be "back on the street" soon so to say ;)

Wait was that rude?  or sounds pretty accurate

Put you out on the street? Or would she think its ok because you're only with a hooker, as you say, and not having a serious relationship. It's not always what you say, it's  how you say it

Why are you so up her ass and questioning everything? She's retiring, that's it, nothing to see here.

It's not like you an afford her rates anyway, dude.

Posted By: MillionDollarSugarBaby
Why are you so up her ass and questioning everything? She's retiring, that's it, nothing to see here.  
   
 It's not like you an afford her rates anyway, dude.
It takes alot of cans to become a millionaire, I suggest you go back to picking instead of coming here

Or maybe you should put your mouth and hands to better uses then to come her typing and saying insults, use your mouth and hands for what your life is only meant for :)

and its ain't for typing or talking ;)

I love it how hard I hurt your feelings every time I reply to you, your retorts still could use some work.

You still didn't answer my question as to why you are so up ElspethSin's ass and what she's doing? I honestly think her reasons for retiring are stupid, but I'm not attacking her and going after her personally. You either have some deep issues with women and/or are you that desperate for any type of female attention?

By the way, I did use my hands for pretty cool stuff including giving stitches. Can't go into details but shmucks like you need people like me in your lives. So, what'd you do today instead of soil yourself and annoy people on the internet?

No disrespect,  but you are being a jerk. If he knew or not is pretty irrelevant,  most of the ladies ive met in the hobby do it for a financial reason for a short time. They are human just like everyone else and get into relationships outside of work. I don't know Elspeth aside from her posts, but I wish her luck. You, I wish you the ability to have compassion.  You're apparently lacking it.

One never learns the outcome without taking the journey.  
Sometime it's for a reason, sometimes just for a season.  
Enjoy the trip. Don't know you from Adam, but I'm a big believer in respect.

Maybe I missed someone, but with all the other side conversations, thank you. For being a normal, decent human being, lol

I take nothing said here personally.

Maybe I'm starting to date a client?

Maybe I'm rekindling an old flame?

Maybe I would like to settle down and have a baby?

Maybe...

Does it really matter?

Any person with as much animosity that has been expressed in this thread must truly be an unhappy and angry human. I'm very glad our paths never crossed. I had many experiences in this hobby and most for the best. I enjoyed it!  

I'm not saying I will never revisit it, but, at the moment I'm exiting the building.

There's always a certain percentage of the population that will be haters, angry, rude, and sometimes not even aware that they're being that way. That might make them not as intelligent as they think they are. And I'm not judging anybody either, I'm not here for that I'm here for the fun. It sounds like you intend to enjoy your decision and enjoy it while it lasts. When we had a relationship we never know how long it's going to last no matter how straight Orville or special we think we are. Some last some don't. Enjoy it while it's happening ciao

I was going to ask what's wrong with a few of them, but after realizing it's obviously "lots", all I can say is I'm sorry your post has been hijacked. Good luck to you, and to the men on this post, please. Stay the hell away from me on my next trip...

zorrf526 reads

That not everyone deserves to know what's going on in your life.  You really don't owe these motherfuckers an explanation.  All the best

Best to you Elspeth, best of luck and thanks for bringing a smile for many...

Posted By: ElspethSin
I take nothing said here personally.  
   
 Maybe I'm starting to date a client?  
   
 Maybe I'm rekindling an old flame?  
   
 Maybe I would like to settle down and have a baby?  
   
 Maybe...  
   
 Does it really matter?  
   
 Any person with as much animosity that has been expressed in this thread must truly be an unhappy and angry human. I'm very glad our paths never crossed. I had many experiences in this hobby and most for the best. I enjoyed it!  
   
 I'm not saying I will never revisit it, but, at the moment I'm exiting the building.

Life is too short to let the negativity of others to get in your way.

Disregard the negative comments; as long as you enjoyed this journey it's all that matters. I hope your new relationship will blossom.

You sure showed who ever you are on the higher ground..

So now there are gay-a phobes too, wow you sure should be proud of your bigot attitude :)

Wow, what damn circus did you escape from...........clown.  Be careful you don't trip over with those big feet of yours.

Posted By: ElspethSin
Thank you to all the friends I made!
Wha are you retiring?:(

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