it's another being sh*t scared of your own shadow which I strongly detected being the case with you!

Apologies in advance that I have nothing to contribute as far as your Qs go since I am not personally encumbered by any of your concerns, but the crucial Q in my case toward you being as to WHY?. I get it that you're more or less just as horny as the rest of the other fcukers on here but the allure of sugar seems to be just too much of a pernicious behavior for those who stand to lose a lot!

I get it that the cost effective price distribution plus the potential for more personal attentiveness (vs pros) with a much younger civvie are the predominant attractions but once someone starts mentioning losing families and careers, to me it seems that they have their priorities all screwed up. If the thrill of the chase is what floats your boat in addition to the above stated, then you seem to have the bases covered already by thinking ahead!

Generally, they tell me who they are, too.

The ones who have given me their real phone number early on have been my best SB experiences.

I do not like to maintain a ruse with SBs. That's just me. Perhaps I'm taking a big chance of being outed, and there is a lot to lose.

They have a lot to lose, too. I mean, they are getting money for sex (with someone older than their dad). I doubt their parents would want to hear that. So, I don't fear being outed. It's like the cold war: mutually assured destruction.

I keep every promise to SBs, in the attempt to avoid getting them pissed off. And, because I'm married, I can always break it off with a SB by playing the wife card. They don't seem to mind me stop seeing them because in favor of spending more time with my wife. NOW, I think they would HATE the fact that I had a new SB.

Everyone must find their own path through the SB forest.

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Your previous interactions with fellow human beings should be enough to tell you when someone is potentially BSC or going to blackmail you.

I tell the girls my real first name and that's it. I pay everything in cash so they don't see my license or credit cards and there's no paper trail. As I get more comfortable with them, I will open up a little at a time, but I try to speak in generalities and not specifics. Everyone has there own risk tolerance with their personal info but I would advise being cautious at first until you get a feel for the game and figure out what you would be ok with someone knowing or NOT knowing should it accidentally slip out.

I've never had a problem. I've had extremely discreet SBs and others who were kinda BSC.But none of them ever threatened to go public with my identity even though they knew my real name, number, and often where I live. I always tell the  that my wife knows about my activities and is cool with it, so maybe they don,t see any point in trying to blackmail me.  

Just met with an SB for the first time 3 days back. We have arranged for a private date in 3 days. She never seemed interested in learning my real name or what I did. Since I was also nervous about what to tell her if asked, I'm glad she did not seem interested.  She never negotiated the rates either and seemed happy with what I offered her. She did seem to be suffering from an inferiority complex and probably felt happy with what I offered her.  

I would rate her at a 7.5 in looks ( fully clothed). Still yet to see how she looks naked and how the performance goes.  

Again I am new to the SB world, been Hobbying for 7 plus years though.

But after a while if you take trips together, stay in the same room, make a restaurant reservation and have to give your name on arrival, she will learn your name, so its best to mutually share info once you assess her discretion.   Most non-pros have just as much interest in long term discretion as you.