First, might I suggest you get your VIP.
Second, Do your research. Find a lady you think you will like and then post on your local board, asking for endorsements or warnings about her.
Third, Listen to what the local "experts" have to say. If she is bad most of the time, chances are she will be bad with you...you are not that lucky!...lol
Fourth, join a verification site like Date-Check.com or preferred411.com if you think verification is going to be a problem.
Fifth, make contact and have fun.
Be Safe and Good Luck!
Other Pointers...
Until You develop a Spidey Sense...See only reviewed ladies...DO NOT TOFTT until you are ready!
Stay Away from CL until you can weed out the trash and ripoffs and even then, use CL as a Last Resort...like a fat chick at closing time.
And Remember: Think with the Big Head and The Little Head will get Fucked. Think with the Little Head, and You Will Get Fucked!
This time I'd like ti try this hobby right!
I tried CL and didn't understand how to go about
all this. and got big time ripped off!!!
I live in Long Beach/OC and would like to find a provider. as may be a regular. around 28 to 45
Could any provider please give me some insight
here Thanks newbie who would like this to work out
I feel you pain. I'm only five weeks into the hobby. All girls through CL. I have some bad and some good, and two where great. I haven't brought myself to call an agency yet, or go through other sites. But, I see if the provider has any reviews. If they have some good reviews then I expect to have a good time. On the other hand some don't have any reviews for some reason or another. I have to problem walking away if the girl is not what she appeared to be. Keep trying and be safe. You also have the right to say "No". After a while you will find a regular. Good Hunting
1. Looking for providers on the Newbie board is a No-No (even though it isn't specifically spelled out in the rules atop the page).
2. Setting out into the hobby in hopes of quickly finding a "regular" is common, and often erroneous.
You WILL most likely come across a provider who you will develop an affinity for and visit regularly; but to set out in a determined search for this is akin to going wife shopping. Mostly disappointment and regret will be found.
to avoid being ripped off, is to be sure that any provider you consider be well reviewed by at least three, and preferable more, reviewers whom each have at least three, and preferably more, reviews to their credit.
In this way you are fairly well assured of finding someone you will be happy with.
Thanks for letting me in on the (no nos)
like I said I want to do this right.
and do your homework like everyone else... there are no quick fixes in this hobby. Slow down, take you time and remain respectful above all...
If you play it right, you will not get ripped off, eventually you may find a provider who will become your ATF but like everything in this hobby, NOTHING is certain.
First, might I suggest you get your VIP.
Second, Do your research. Find a lady you think you will like and then post on your local board, asking for endorsements or warnings about her.
Third, Listen to what the local "experts" have to say. If she is bad most of the time, chances are she will be bad with you...you are not that lucky!...lol
Fourth, join a verification site like Date-Check.com or preferred411.com if you think verification is going to be a problem.
Fifth, make contact and have fun.
Be Safe and Good Luck!
Other Pointers...
Until You develop a Spidey Sense...See only reviewed ladies...DO NOT TOFTT until you are ready!
Stay Away from CL until you can weed out the trash and ripoffs and even then, use CL as a Last Resort...like a fat chick at closing time.
And Remember: Think with the Big Head and The Little Head will get Fucked. Think with the Little Head, and You Will Get Fucked!
Thanks for your help I've been think to much with my little head your right.