Salt and pepper on a man, very attractive to me!  

Love a silver fox too,  

As far as grooming, keeping things trimmed is best, but clean is essential.

..... Hairpiece, comb over .... Not so much!

xo

Wher is the best places for men to get waxed or shaved?

I agree with Brooklyn, as long as it s all clean , it's a matter of preference .
Clean is a must for me ....

It is possible, that I dont notice comb overs when they are on. Manscaping, yes, I always appreciate that. Makes other activities much easier

As for comb overs...depends on how it is down, but most of the time I do not even notice it.  

Grooming- number one is clean, clean, clean!  I appreciate some hair controlling measures but not necessary.

Nothing says you can't adapt or accept change like a salt and pepper comb-over. It's some of the first advice we give older guys looking for jobs. Loose the comb-over. Women laugh at them. Hair pieces are in the same category.

Men, with hair, look very good with s/p or pure silver. It's one of the advantages we, not me, have. Men get distinguished when they age as women just get older.

As for manscaping, in my natural environment I would look like a polar bear now if I didn't do it. The laser made my back as bare as a baby's butt. A front wax every two months keeps me feeling nice and fresh. The laser is ineffective on grey hairs. Each time I get a wax it hurts less as more hair goes away. At this point it's just annoying. Plus my usual waxer is cute and enjoys flirting with an old guy.(I tip well, I doubt the two are related . ) Shave my junk and it's all good.

The ladies here are no fools and of course they love their -fill in the blank- clients. Go to a site like Reddit and you will get unfiltered opinions.

Not one of them gave me a real yes or no.  

After I did it, they all take extra time at the areas in question.  Words are not necessary.  Actions speak way louder.  
And I, of course, am so much happier.  

I will always keep them shaved from now on.

We will find out in three months how popular this Yuge comb-over is.

Comb overs not so much. The bald head is no longer uncool. I find bald to be very sexy. Hair pieces are always obvious. They tend to create a painfully awkward moment when you're having sex. Forgive me for being honest here...when it starts to flap around like a fish out of water I can't help but to giggle. You don't want your gal pal  laughing during intercourse. As for manscaping, it helps but it's not necessarily my preference.  
In my opinion men who are confident and comfortable with who they are most attractive to me. When I was 20 something it was different. I needed a guy to be gorgeous... My ex looks like a famous country singer. Well lol he is an ex for a reason. I guess life lessons change our perspective. Now I am 40 something and I find that fellas can be 20+ years older than myself and still get my motor running.  
No matter what, if you are kind and decent women will appreciate you. Whether you're bald or rockin' that hair piece...do it with confidence and a smile.