those with access. Same for the guys... more without RO board access than with.
I agree with your assessment, but see no harm in the occasional post to just vent a bit. I think it was pretty responsible and discreet of Maria to explain what happened and offer to share info privately via PM, rather than to jump to a Blacklist or broadcast the client's info in her post.I dont get what is up with these guys wasting peoples' time. I had a guy contact me yesterday through here asking for a late night outcall appt. Long story short, he decided to send me all the way out to the Time Square area late at night just to not return my text messages. I think its beyond cruel that a guy would play mind games like this and to send a provider out like that in an area that is full of homeless/drunks....wow. After getting back to my place finally at 2am, I did some more digging and come to find out this guy has been doing this for awhile. Why cant we get his screen name banned on here so maybe he can stop doing this to other providers? If you would like his information, you can pm me.
I don't think someone can be banned here unless they violate board rules, and NCNS, while being extremely uncool, doesn't qualify. If he's a habitual offender, one would think this is grounds for being blacklisted...
those with access. Same for the guys... more without RO board access than with.
I agree with your assessment, but see no harm in the occasional post to just vent a bit. I think it was pretty responsible and discreet of Maria to explain what happened and offer to share info privately via PM, rather than to jump to a Blacklist or broadcast the client's info in her post.
I would love to have the ladies board as a tool but, they refuse my request on grounds I don't post enough. Now that I'm trying the positing seems to bite me in the ass.
Wonder how many providers are actually on that board.
Maria: Sorry to hear that happened to you!
just happen to not turn up this info?
Please don't take this the wrong way, but it might help to provide some context otherwise some might think that this story says as much about him as it does about your methods. I would've assumed that a provider would screen the hell out of a guy before going to meet him at his place late at night in a place like NYC. Forget about NCNS, it could've been worse than that.
Yes I did screen him but not through references, first I did ask if he had references he said he doesnt hobby much. I told him he would have to give up personal information for me to screen him then, which was his full name, company website/linkedin profile. I also did a google search of his ter screen name which several reviews that he did of providers came up but they were back in 2010/11. After discussing everything we agreed to meet, he told me he was jumping in the shower and would text me when he was out. i went ahead and started to head towards that area and when i got in that area i texted him, no response. i ended up just grabbing a quick bite while i waited around for 30 mins. Still no response from my text messages as well as i sent him a pm through this website in-case he just wasnt getting my texts. Anyway, after returning finally back home at 2am from the no show, i started to google black list clients. thats when i came upon the a particular website. I hadn't used this site in years but found my old log in. Come to find out he has done this a few times with other providers and thats why I decided to post this info because if maybe someone else had said something through this website site it may have came up when I first googled his screen name. Again, I do take responsibility in the fact that I should have done some better digging on this guy as well as not taking that late of an appt. Again, its one of those things where once you finally get through with all the back n forth of pms and/or emails, you dont realize that goes its been over an hour and its getting late.
of providers simply won't do it. Also, for hobbyists that don't have good references, many providers will do outcall only at a nice hotel and only if they can call the front desk to verify you are checked in, for example by giving the name and asking to have the call transferred to the room.
Better luck next time and be safe. And you're definitely making it harder for him to pull this again next time. I don't even really understand how he gets off on this, but who can figure some people out?