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open and not mentally lazy ( then body would become lazy as well - be carefull!!)
May be it is good idea practice with women from here?..
 Just as fitness room for the body fitness for sex and love skills?

is not we are here what for?  
“I cannot have a man who is afraid of everything, I don't have the time to soothe insecurities and fears, I cannot have a man who is standing on a stone by a creek, watching for the fish to swim by and every time he sees a fish he says "Oh look, this fish scares me, I wonder what this fish means, this fish might mean- this, or this fish might mean- that" for God's sake, they are just fish, and they don't mean anything! Such a sad thing, so many fine, strong men standing on top of little stones, pointing at fish all the time! Such a waste! Such a waste of time! I can only have a man who will leap into the water, not minding the damn fish and whatever other little things that scare him. I need to have someone who is braver than me; if I am a pirate, he has to be the pirate Captain, if I am a pirate Captain he has to be the flying dragon.”  
― C. JoyBell C.

 
So you do not need a woman who would make you feel and encourage you to flying dragon?
At list do not afraid of fish..

You are man..  any man needs love
 Do not give on love EVER ..
Do not .. please.

Hunger  for Love is harder satisfy then hunger for food ...
 But ti is ONE and ONLY one CHEMISTRY  which keeps male ( and female too ) young pretty active and happy ..
 How NOT to be involved ??!!!
 It is death ..
 Do not die too early ..
 Life is next to you .. take it ..

Curious as to how you guys got into the hobby.  For me, loneliness after I lost my wife. Found a rather misrepresented incall ad in a newspaper,  went there a few times until I found better. I wonder if that place is still around. ..disaster run by a very domineering madam called Eva. Anyway, yeah...for me Hobbying is the best of both worlds,  I get the intimacy without the involvement,  something im not ready to handle and maybe wont ever be. JJ

open and not mentally lazy ( then body would become lazy as well - be carefull!!)
May be it is good idea practice with women from here?..
 Just as fitness room for the body fitness for sex and love skills?

is not we are here what for?  
“I cannot have a man who is afraid of everything, I don't have the time to soothe insecurities and fears, I cannot have a man who is standing on a stone by a creek, watching for the fish to swim by and every time he sees a fish he says "Oh look, this fish scares me, I wonder what this fish means, this fish might mean- this, or this fish might mean- that" for God's sake, they are just fish, and they don't mean anything! Such a sad thing, so many fine, strong men standing on top of little stones, pointing at fish all the time! Such a waste! Such a waste of time! I can only have a man who will leap into the water, not minding the damn fish and whatever other little things that scare him. I need to have someone who is braver than me; if I am a pirate, he has to be the pirate Captain, if I am a pirate Captain he has to be the flying dragon.”  
― C. JoyBell C.

 
So you do not need a woman who would make you feel and encourage you to flying dragon?
At list do not afraid of fish..

You are man..  any man needs love
 Do not give on love EVER ..
Do not .. please.

Hunger  for Love is harder satisfy then hunger for food ...
 But ti is ONE and ONLY one CHEMISTRY  which keeps male ( and female too ) young pretty active and happy ..
 How NOT to be involved ??!!!
 It is death ..
 Do not die too early ..
 Life is next to you .. take it ..

I think you misunderstood me. My point is that I dont think I want to get married again in the forseeable future. Grief can take a long time. JJ

In my country we honor grief for  spouse  a year.

 You need to remember gave to grief just right amount of time  

 Twelve month.. it is  when  healthy human must to over come lost.

Lost always would be in our hearts.

Pain never will go away..

 and sometime just out of no where memories would come along with tears ..

 But not let yourself to dive in to cynicism and using people just for sex .

And As I may  feel you - you be not satisfied just with physical ways of things.

 Such gentlemen as you are craving for partner ..

 You are swan male who lost his mate.... his swan female ...

Read this song s words.-( translation )
 Then open link bellow - Sophia Rotary sings  the song

And please do not let grief took you down

Heart needs LOVE  
Such man's heart as is yours - NEEDS LOVE and connection  

You can be loved...

It will cure you even if you yourself can not return this love yet .. but you will heal.. and become young again

Care about yourself your soul and your HEART  
Good people are dying when love is gone from their lives
 You know that well  and yourself.
 Find it  

 Or your heart would hurt..

 Gave  a honey to your heart too

 .. not just to .. you know ..
C**K"

 
Swans flying over the earth
On a sunny afternoon.
It was light and joy
In the sky together,
The earth seemed affectionate
They are at this moment ..
Suddenly, someone shot at the birds,
And the cry of:

CHORUS:
What's wrong with you, my love?
Respond quickly.
Without your love
The sky is sad.
Where are you, my love?
Come back soon,
The beauty of his tender
Heart I keep warm.

In heaven, he was looking for a girlfriend,
Called out of the nest,
But the silence answered
Bird trouble.
Fly to the edge of the distant
Swan could not,
Losing true friend,
He was alone.

CHORUS:
Forgive me, my love,
For someone else's evil,
That my wing
Happiness is not saved.
Forgive me, my love,
That spring day
In the sky blue, as before,
We do not have to be alone.

And there was irreparable
This trouble,
What does not meet with your loved
He never.
Swan again rose to the cloud
The song was interrupted.
And with folded wings fearlessly,
Fell to the ground.

CHORUS:
I want the live swans,
And the white flocks
And the white flocks
Became the world better.

Let swans flying across the sky
Over land mine,
Over the fate of my fly
In the bright world of people

https://youtu.be/vAgXc32Ymd8

 

PS. Here  2 links of same song - one older singer real one  and other one very young girl

-- Modified on 5/10/2015 11:52:35 AM

my foray into this lifestyle was for similar reasons.  I call it a lifestyle because if you think about it, it really is a conciseness decision.

Give it time, I don't know the length of time its been for you, but time does eventually heal.  You also have to consider that when you do meet someone who you feel is worthy of being in a relationship with, that she's not a replacement for what you had.

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