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Re: First Contact
ShakingtheSheets 189 Reviews 1470 reads
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Make sure she wants to receive an E-mail as an initial intorduction. Some prefer phone calls, others have an appointment form on their website.

So, what to put in the E-mail. First, let her know how you found her (i.e. I would just say that you came across her web site or profile while browsing the TER boards). Second, tell her a little bit about you (i.e. You are a 30 year old single, white male, working in Real Estate)Third, tell her where and when you are interested in meeting with her (i.e. at her incall residence, or your home/hotel, on the 10th of May) Fourth, tell her what times work best for you and see if she has availability. Fifth, if her website does not post rates, you are perfectly within your rights to inquire (but obviously phrase it in a non-sexual way...i.e. just ask what her hourly rates are for her time). Dont ask about anything sexual that may or may not occur during the session (you should be able to gather this from her reviews) and do not ask about information you can easily obtain from her website or profile.

If you are not ready to make an appointment but just want some general information from her (i.e. her hours of availability or where in a city she is located)that's fine; just tell her up front.

Be prepared to give her some information for her security and comfort level (i.e. a work phone number for verification since you wont have a reference) Have fun and good luck!    

-- Modified on 5/2/2007 9:04:28 AM

Shabadu2791 reads

So I'd lurked, I VIP'd, read and researched for a good long while and finally decided to go through with my first step into the hobby. I was pretty nervous so I decided to write an email so that at least I don't come off as a complete spaz.

And I just stared at an empty window for a while.

What's the best way to make first contact anyway? "Boy's got game" I'm not. LOL. I'm trying to cleave through the nerves with at least some kind of rap. :P

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wormwood2111 reads

Sounds familiar!

Don't worry about making a stellar impression through email. Just send the provider a short note and provide a little introductory information and mention that this'll be your first time with a provider. She'll more than likely have dealt with this kind of nervousness before and will do a good job making you feel very confortable.

Enjoy your meeting.

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PocketFisherman1546 reads

Read her web site if she has one.  If the has a request form you should consider filling that out instead of an e-mail.  If she requires referrals you should let her know that it is your first time seeing an escort and ask if she is willing to screen you some other way.  You will likely need to be ready to give up some personal information at this point, full name, work phone #, etc.  She will need some way to make sure that you are who you say you are...

Don't worry about any "rap", you are NOT going to impress her with how hip you are.  "Hey babe, does the donation include (any sex act)?" is guaranteed to get it deleted unanswered.  Just be polite and discreet.

Oh, every single one of us was scared half to death the first time.  :D

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ShakingtheSheets1471 reads

Make sure she wants to receive an E-mail as an initial intorduction. Some prefer phone calls, others have an appointment form on their website.

So, what to put in the E-mail. First, let her know how you found her (i.e. I would just say that you came across her web site or profile while browsing the TER boards). Second, tell her a little bit about you (i.e. You are a 30 year old single, white male, working in Real Estate)Third, tell her where and when you are interested in meeting with her (i.e. at her incall residence, or your home/hotel, on the 10th of May) Fourth, tell her what times work best for you and see if she has availability. Fifth, if her website does not post rates, you are perfectly within your rights to inquire (but obviously phrase it in a non-sexual way...i.e. just ask what her hourly rates are for her time). Dont ask about anything sexual that may or may not occur during the session (you should be able to gather this from her reviews) and do not ask about information you can easily obtain from her website or profile.

If you are not ready to make an appointment but just want some general information from her (i.e. her hours of availability or where in a city she is located)that's fine; just tell her up front.

Be prepared to give her some information for her security and comfort level (i.e. a work phone number for verification since you wont have a reference) Have fun and good luck!    

-- Modified on 5/2/2007 9:04:28 AM

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