So I live in northern NJ just outside the city and I'm looking for a regular BDSM Sub for some light rope bondage, ball gag, nipple clamp, GFE play.  I had a regular Sub who sadly left the business and our thing was to meet monthly at some seedy northern NJ hotel / motel (there's no shortage of those) and have some fun.  I've tried the NJ boards with no luck and I'm really not looking for a "BDSM service" type of deal either and I'd happily pay for the Uber over the Hudson.  Perfect scenario would be a young girl next door type.  I'm a generous white gentleman in my early 40's just looking for a monthly BDSM fix  Please PM me if interested . . .