I saw your post on a an earlier STD thread, and have yet to set it active. Frankly, the amount of personal detail is better suited to the Erotic Highway, and I'm sure you would get much better advice there if you were to repost your message. If you are a VIP, you can PM me to discuss, or I can be reached at [email protected].
I am still relatively new to the hobby, with some very fun times under my belt (no pun intended), and one or two not so great moments. Thing is, afterwards, I worry tremendously about STDs. I have always used a condom, but still worry about giving my SO something. I am amazed at how little this topic comes up here. So, I guess I have a few general questions.
1) Which behaviors are ok, and which are not? I really enjoy DATY, and would hate to give this up. What are my chances of getting something? Also, I am interested in trying a BBBJ, but have so far been too nervous.
2) I am a bit scare off by providers who have many, many reviews, as I imagine that the more active they are, the more likely they are to have something. How often do most providers get checked? And how do I hold a frank conversation about this concern with a provider without completely ruining the mood?
Thanks.
but the enzymes in your saliva kill 'most' of the BIG fears you have in respect to DATY. There are still some pesky maladies that can get through; but for the most part Mother Nature is on our side in this practice.
How few reviews make a provider a safe bet, and how many make her a temerarious slut?
If you had a six digit annual cash income job where careful attention to safe sex & health care maintenance was paramount wouldn't you follow both the precepts and a strict maintenance schedule?
It is more often the civvie or industry curious semi-pro that is delusional or in denial about health risks. The gals with a serious list of reviews to their credit are like any professional in their knowledge of and subsequent proactive actions to safeguard.
and do a search on STDs... a wealth of info is available over there, and if you do have questions after researching a bit, Love Goddess will be able to help you out.
I saw your post on a an earlier STD thread, and have yet to set it active. Frankly, the amount of personal detail is better suited to the Erotic Highway, and I'm sure you would get much better advice there if you were to repost your message. If you are a VIP, you can PM me to discuss, or I can be reached at [email protected].