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if I am getting too picky as I get older. I'm in my very early 40's, and lately I've been noticing that as I meet a provider, I immediately proceed to look and see if she has her nails manicured or if she has "man hands" and also her toes to see if they are at least painted. Other little things like if she smells like "hotel soap" or a nice fragrance or lotion from say bath & body.
I find myself getting turned off if a provider is not taking care of the little things. Am I being too picky? Just looking for some advice from a provider's point of view.
It's not too picky, IMHO rather your experience taking over. You know what a session is like with a lady who glosses over the little details versus the session with the one who does......
It's actually nice if a man takes notice of these things. Much time, effort and money goes into taking care of ourselves and looking fabulous. Very rarely, in fact almost never does a man notice my mani/pedi, tasty new scent or anything other than the amount of saliva i can produce. So, be picky and take notice of our efforts. xxx Erin
Thank you for the honest feedback I appreciate it!
Loochie, I am right with you. I do look for key factors like great communication, a well put together woman, nails, smells, outfit, etc. I spend time filtering my choices to avoid providers who don't fit that standard. So, no, it's not picky to me! It's knowing what you enjoy. One would hope that the better providers want clients like us. But everyone is different and every experience stands alone, and that's why I have grown to enjoy this stuff over the years.
I'm often visited by gentlemen who are sensitive to artificial scents and prefer to not have fake nails and keep them short for gardening. (although I certainly get my toes done regularly.)
I think it'd be best if you give your provider a heads up that you enjoy these things. I generally stay on the safe side and never use scents unless I know my client has a thing for them. I like using them too, but want an 'okay' first rather than assuming. (p411 has it as a question on their profiles, which is very helpful)
I understand what you're saying. I personally prefer her skin smelling like a nice lotion from say Bath & Body. Also, regarding her nails, they do not have to be necessarily "fake" but at least nicely painted. When I see a woman w/o her nails and toes not painted, just yuck lol. Man hands is all that pops in my head when I see a woman w/o her nails at least painted lol.