While I suppose some ladies might, not all providers do. I do suggest when contacting a lady that you mention your condition so that she will know what to expect when she sees you. Also, with a bit of research on the Web, you will find that there are websites specifically dedicated to helping disabled persons connect with providers of erotic services. One such website is SugarTouch, which lists providers who offer service to disabled persons. It is a new site and so far has only a handful of providers listed, but hopefullly over time the selection will be wider. With a bit of patience, I am certain you will find what you are looking for. Good luck, and let us know how it turns out

I think the best way when contacting a provider is to tell her about your situation, just be honest

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There are many ladies willing to work with you, just be sure to explain your situation beforehand.

Now forgive me if I presume too much, but I expect that you have day-to-day living assistance.  Make it clear to him/her that this is your choice, and it is not his/her place to interfere.  Their role  is to help you get by, not to choose how you get by!

Best wishes to you!!!  


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Probably a few do, not knowing how to deal with what they are not familiar with. But I would not worry about the few who do, just be upfront and I think you will find most well reviewed providers happy to see you.

Re: do providers screen-out disabled men?

just wanted to follow-up and happily say that the provider i contacted did not screen me out and we had a great time!  Thanks for the helpful responses to my original post.