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Playing off your alias, you are not my ex-wife...
Crazy Diamond 12 Reviews 498 reads
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Aside from the humor, you are correct.  Although it's possible to schedule something last minute sometimes with ladies you already know, this won't always work.  And it never should with ladies you are planning to meet for the first time...respect her need to screen, and allow her time to make her decision to schedule.  Seems like common courtesy to me...

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Seriously, Do you guys think that the ladies sit around and eat bon bon's waiting for you to call to meet you in seconds?? Come on! Take into consideration the ladies do have lives of their own just like you. Be considerate and plan ahead!!!

While earlier is often better sometimes that is not possible.  What exactly is the harm in letting providers who may be interested that I am too. The alternative is that those who are free and interested lose business either to inaction or to agencies.  I don't get how that kind of post is remotely disrespectful.

think you are way overacting here.

Yes, most guys try to plan ahead and schedule appointments at least 24 hour prior. But sometimes, its not always feasible. Business meetings cancel last minute and you find yourself with downtime a few hours later. Or suppose you have a 3PM appointment and the lady cancels on you at 10AM. What is the harm in asking other providers if they might be available on short notice? Your not presuming that she is sitting by the phone just waiting for your call. But perhaps she has an opening in her schedule as well and can accommodate a last second request. There is no harm in asking...all she can do is say no if she's unavailable.  

Life gets in the way for everyone. Asking for a last minute appointment is not a sign of disrespect. It may just be a sign of life. There is never any harm in asking.

I like to plan ahead for many reasons, however, there have been times I was available at the last minute, and found some great customers who stuck around, and also booked extended dates.

It's not inconsiderate, but the chance of something working out last minute in my case is pretty slim... That's the main reason I wouldn't suggest booking ahead. I like to be ready, relaxed, and have my routine to buy drinks of choice, and have a nice feeling. Not rushed with hair half done as he's walking up to the door . :)

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Aside from the humor, you are correct.  Although it's possible to schedule something last minute sometimes with ladies you already know, this won't always work.  And it never should with ladies you are planning to meet for the first time...respect her need to screen, and allow her time to make her decision to schedule.  Seems like common courtesy to me...

Not all of us know our schedules in advance.  With my job and my wife, I don't usually know if I'll have any time until same day, or even not until I suddenly become available.

When I first contact someone to get verified I always ask them if it's Ok to try to schedule last minute.  A few say no.  Most say yes, as long as I realize they might not be available.  

There is nothing inconsiderate about asking, as long as you don't expect anything.

What's so terrible about just saying no?  Or not even replying? Personally, I have the luxury of planning well ahead and never would initiate contact the same day.  So my esteemed colleague Sir Clone is right.
But I will cut you slack because I just was hanging with a hooker who now signs her emails to me as "Your Third Ex Wife."

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