I know she provided in the past because I saw her a couple of times, but it's been about 2 years now since I've seen her listed. The previous agency she was under told me she doesn't provide anymore, but I'm not sure if that means that she doesn't provide under that particular agency and not others. She didn't use her real name under the agency I used and I know other agencies tend to say Blonde UTR, DD Brunette UTR, etc. for some stars. Of course one may have to use those other agencies to know who they are talking about.
This porn star will be coming to my city to do some feature dancing. I don't care much for doing anything in the strip club but boy would I love to find out if she's providing elsewhere. I'm just not sure what the best way would be to ask her under such circumstances. Has anyone been in this situation? How do you approach the porn star about whether she's providing without pissing her off completely?..you know she escorted in the past. She knows she escorted in the past. Ask her if she still escorts. Who says she will be pissed off. Sounds like you are just afraid.
Why not ask her in person? Somehow, I think the odds may be in your favor...
then why the nerves? See her in the club. Ask her. She will probably remember you, after all, despite having seen many others over the years, you say you repeated a few times with her, thus probably making you memorable. What's the worst that can happen? She says no. In that case, dust off the ole search button on TER and find somebody else.
you really care not so much about whether she provides, but rather whether she would see you in a p4p situation. You should go see her, tip her really well and remind her that the two of you had fun together in the past and you would love to make that happen again if it were possible. Having seen her before gives you the inside track over a regular Joe Blow in a strip club asking her if she's still turning tricks. Even if she doesn't regularly provide anymore she may be willing to see an "old friend" UTR. I don't see how she can be offended by that; and if she is then she's just too sensitive. It's not as if she never provided.
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I agree with the others. Just ask (discretly, assuming she has a current website and contact info.) Renewing contact AT THE CLUB might be better but leave you and her much less time to make schedules match up. (She might be in town for only 2 or 3 days?)
The biggest problem with email or phone is that maybe she didn't deal with you directly in the past, only the agency. In that case, she might not know your phone or email. You might have to ask HER to contact the agency and ask the agency to confirm you as having seen her in the past and authenticate your phone and email for her to answer your call / emals