she was going to be meeting me at an airport and wanted to be able to pick me out. I didn't know what her face looked like.
Also, we had communicated quite extensively prior to meeting, and all went well. But it is unusual, and if it makes you feel unsafe, find a gal who doesn't require a photoI have run across quite a few providers that want photos sent in order to begin the booking process. I am not comfortable with that. anyone have any experience with that as a requirement? If so was it safe?
she was going to be meeting me at an airport and wanted to be able to pick me out. I didn't know what her face looked like.
Also, we had communicated quite extensively prior to meeting, and all went well.
But it is unusual, and if it makes you feel unsafe, find a gal who doesn't require a photo
to pick her up. I simply grabbed a marker and poster board and made up a sign with her name on it. Stood with all the other drivers. Kinda fun, and avoided the picture thing.
And I'm not a fan of sending pics under any circumstances.
FWIW, I would NEVER do that - once your picture is on the Internet, you no longer have any control. There are plenty of QUALITY providers who do NOT require pictures.
on certain other websites it's common practice for the men as well as the women to post pictures. I've never had any trouble with that.
It might not be a requirement. A lot of us have a spot on our screening form that has an option for you to upload a photo, which might make it easier for some people to be verified, but it is not always a requirement
If so, I'd just say NO.
But if she asked for a body shot--no, not a "dick pick"--and she had a logical reason for it, I'd probably do it. I don't have any tats etc. that would make me easily identifiable if the pic wound up in the ether.
When stupidly emailed it to her, I never heard from her again.
Because as soon as I see that request in a web site or in ad I move on. All your reviews are in Atlanta, a city with an endless amount of providers, so I can't image an issue finding someone to see.
I had to give info locally including DL to get vetted as a newbie two times. After that I had free p411 by invites. I now book through p411 so have not been asked any additional info.
on the company website. No ill effects.
Just like you, I like to wet my lips and engage my fantasies around the gent I will meet. No violations of privacy etc...many men feel this way and always guarantee that the pics etc are for their personal use. Is it so hard to believe we could feel the same?
Also it is a security thing...to know who is walking in the door. We are ladies after all.
For newbies, with no references etc, it is an act of faith and security that we are both headed in the right direction to establish a comfort zone to really relate...it is our time that we offer.
I know many ladies who request IDs-drivers, work, etc. When you verify on date check or p411, this is a standard if I recall which offers one more security on male and female side that the individuals are genuine and motivated to establish trust and fun.
So really if you want to spend time with someone and this is a req, no need to be so suspicious. I have asked for it but never insisted on it. If you just cannot or do not want to provide that, explain your point of view and if that is a place she can not vary on, then move on to someone else.