As you get older do you find yourself repeating the same sexual activities you have always performed or are you continuing to explore additional activities and expand your experiences? Have you narrowed your pool of partners, defined or refined your preferred partner type, or are you exercising diversity by age, race, body type etc.?
But I don't think that age is the only culprit.
For one thing, there are only so many sexual tricks out there and once you've experienced most of them, there's fewer to get turned on to.
Another reason in my case is financial. I usually like to see several new gals each year as well as continue to see past favorites, but these days I've got all I can do to keep up with the favs.
If my ship comes in however, I'll be back in port with a new gal on each arm
It seems in the last couple of years, I've explored the world of being the Dominant. I don't look or inquire if the girls I see are submissive. If I like their look then I make the call. And I always introduce them to this in a very slow and assuring way. Never had a problem and most at the end really enjoyed it. So for now I'm trying the cuffs, tie downs, gags and just other things that I've seen. I'm not Christian Grey like but....I do have a tad of that.
As for the women I see, they tend to be over 30,probably more over 35. They seem to "get it" and they're more acceptant of this. But I was always into women over 30 so my defined partner really hasn't change. Just my play method.
There's the ol' standbys in both partners and activities; I repeat because I really enjoy them. But I also love exploring, as I think it helps me feel young - younger than my chronological age at least! Thus while I continue to see my ATF on a regular basis and see other favs occasionally, I occasionally see someone different. For example, I recently met a provider who reached out to me because of a post I made (under my handle). She wasn't on my radar, but after researching her I thought I'd enjoy meeting her--and I did.
I've been pretty diverse through the years and race isn't a qualifier for me, but there's a dearth of Asian providers in my area. I tend to gravitate towards fit women in the 35-50 demographic, but I've made exceptions and had some good experiences.
Activity-wise, I'm always up for something new, or just a different way of doing something old. I've learned a lot from providers, but also bring ideas to them. It's a kick when a professional says, "I've never done that before, let's try it!" One thing I'd like to do more of is nuru. My nuru go-to partner left the business, so I'm trying to find a provider who's interested in slipping into that role.
ladies new to me. I sometimes let my partner lead and use her imagination to show me some new variety that isn't vanilla.
since my focus is in enjoying the endless variety in female breasts and lickable-body-parts.
I'm much more inclined to seek the company of women with a particular body type and age range than at any time previous. I've morphed from monogamous to polyamorous. I've evolved from a sexually repressed altar boy to being absolutely shameless.
When I began hobbying 14 years ago I tried to see every provider within range and every visitor to my area. Now I tend to focus only on the ones who are "my type" and really excite me. And when I find one I tend to see her over and over and let other opportunities go by. However the frequency of my hobby dating has actually gone up!