Well I too am an older guy who loves to make sure whom ever I am with has a girl-gasm.... Even when it is with a provider. I like for both of us to have pleasure.
Now I don't equate # of gasms = more pleasure. But it is nice for each to have multiple. Doesn't it? Because most guys (including myself) when with someone likes to have multiple if we are both into it. So in my mind I would think the female partner would also like to have multiple. Or is my thinking way off???
At what point do you think we are not enjoying it anymore?
Also, why doesn't it go both ways? I would love to make someone cum over and over, but I would want them to enjoy it.
TL
You aren't enjoying when you say or get up and leave???
Time to GO! Your out here! Seems like I've heard that before.
All I know is that if you were making me cum over and over again I would Definitely be enjoying myself!!!! To your first point, As an older man it makes me pleased when I can produce a "girl-gasm". Sometimes as pleased as when I get "man-gasmed". I'm not sure why but I do like it!!!
Well I too am an older guy who loves to make sure whom ever I am with has a girl-gasm.... Even when it is with a provider. I like for both of us to have pleasure.
Now I don't equate # of gasms = more pleasure. But it is nice for each to have multiple. Doesn't it? Because most guys (including myself) when with someone likes to have multiple if we are both into it. So in my mind I would think the female partner would also like to have multiple. Or is my thinking way off???
Well, I think we've been told over and over again how elusive the female orgasm can be, and we know that the O is the focal point of the male sexual experience, so we assume that you like what we like and that would be to come as many times as possible. As with most things men think about women, we're probably a little bit off there. 
Interestingly, as I've aged and become less able to hit the jackpot more than once an evening, I've come to appreciate the physical closeness and eroticism of good oral (giving or getting) and a good hard bang, even if I don't get off. Like pizza, sex is rarely bad! I just enjoy being sexual with women I find attractive.
It's even more of a turn-on if it happens more than once.
Why do you ask?
There are great games that happen to not have high point scoring.
There are dull games with super high scores.
And yes, it does go both ways (but I suspect you knew that). 
I suppose some people quantify everything. Others enjoy the journey.
One has to decide what the objective is in everything they do and go from there. Some the objective is how many times climax is reach for one or both parties or maybe the culmination of the two, others just want it to be fun and exciting no matter the outcome or how many times the finish line is reached.
Me, I prefer the enjoyment of the journey, the wiggles and giggles and the final burst of excitement followed by the calm.
I'm happy that a lot of "older" gentlemen are replying to this post. I too am an older guy who likes to get squirted in the face if I can. I want the lady to get off before I do if I can even get off. If I don't get off, I don't even care as long as she enjoys my work.
I ask, because some people want to start grabbing pussy immediately and make me cum immediately and then somehow think that I will enjoy that over and over for an hour. SO not the case. Every woman is different. I would LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE to make you cum 12 times an hour, too but I like the tease, and I like TO tease. I would rather have 3x 10.0-level orgasms than 10 3pt ones. Don't I get a say in what pleases me? So, I ask because when I get gents who pay attention, I will grab whatever and shove it where I want it.
What is sexier:
• a woman asking you to make her cum
• a woman clamping her legs and pushing your hand away and trying to get you to stop because she's sensitive and needs the recovery period, too?
I would love to chow box or lick a dick for a whole damn hour, too, and make everyone cum 12 times, but most dudes (even the horniest of men) would not want a woman to expect him to keep going if he needs a break.
That being said, I have days where I am more horny for an orgasm or 8 and others where being lightly grazed up my spine with a light touch from sacrum to neck will put me over the moon.
Men are not all the same, either. I have to learn each separately. I am not every woman; I'm just this one.
Does that make sense?
Trin
...lightly grazed up my spine with a light touch from sacrum to neck...
Trinity, I agree w you 100%
Are you going to teach a class?
Red (the Sassy one)