Perfect Date for me is a man who  is able to enjoy a lot of activities.
Well balanced man.
 Active in everything... not how you say in states .. "couch potato"? never use those words .. simply do not have such people around me
 
It were a few nice men for me (I am talking bout hobby .. Not about my civil life -I always was in love with married men - Just as Sophie Loren .. do you know her Bio ?? so it is same about me ..
I also did manage to be married once and have kids - so i talk about men in hobby here  
My dinner dates .. there are many of them .. sorry if you are not in this story .. I hope it be posted  But I can not write a whole book  
"Saga to My Lovers from Adult hobby "
Soooo.. what it was ??? and is ? and hope will be ?
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I love when man books hotel including me as a second guest .. and while he is on his meetings  I do arrive check myself to his room and await for him there...( NYC  and Boston it where it takes place)
When he comes - we have intimate moments .. then we  go or or to one of famous Jazz Clubs in NYC, or Broadway show.. enjoying concert and dinner at same  time if venue allowed  that if not we go to near by exotic  places as lets say I love Russian Food I take him or to Russian tea room or to Samovar or to Arianna piano bar ..then concert show .. what ever ..  
after.. and then we take  Taxi and again our love nest  where we have champagne ..and then it is wild or calmly loving - as he wish Love when man kiss me a lot .. kiss all my body starting from palm of hands .. neck and finishing sucking my toes .. love and spanking too and knee ticklish - good at the dinner table too
 Then he falls in sleep . I am free or to stay or leave.

It is how he wants. Sometime I stay sometime I leave.

 Perfect date for me is also other one who sending me flowers for last 3 years weekly,
 visited me in CO and few times now in NYC and we went one to Europe and Vegas.
Married men of course  
.. Do not know if it would be so perfect if we be day to day together ...
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An another perfect date scenario running in my life now  is a  date in DC to which I am driving, flying ,taking bus or train two times a month. Not always advertising my visit to DC.
When his wife is out to vacations he just lives with me all 7 10  days .. and always it is 2 3 days mornings,  
 afternoons and late nights.. all him.
Going to work and coming back at any time we wish and he has time .. Russian restaurants in the area, Kennedy center concerts for performing arts  then a lot of champagne ...( but it is not always as to Kennedy center .. often just hotel  and dinner.. or Champagne in room )
 Love when  he is dashing pay a bill after I sneak in his hand underwear..at dinner table

Some places which i  do know has  zoo big private restrooms and security is zoo friendly that we can spend may be 15 min in family restroom . you know and yourself doing what ..

But the most exotic dinner date was for me in Waldorf Astoria

We had a dinner in the suite  and it was huge one a tzar palace .. and he asked me not to dress .. wear nothing at dinner  
 Yet it was server at the dinner.  
My date was fully dressed himself  Server was dressed too it was just I who was underused. We kept sophisticated conversation. at dinner .. not after ...

He almost asked me marry him..presenting ring - he always does that - every time he is with me - he proposes  
  But again it is all fantasy - he is married and he did show me pictures of his wife she is kinky hot and seems porno star herself.

I do love live fantasy .. it is my life...There also a lot of wears things men hire me for - as to wear his dead wife outfits.  No sex . Dress conservatively and look as her. he cried . I was about to cry. Still now have it in heart. It was just one occasion. He did not see escorts- too old and nice man .. Loved his wife and still loves .. it was heart breaking experience.
I love more interesting role plays myself  

 I am an actress by birth and  I do live my role as it is my life  
IT IS MY LIFE _ YOU GENTLEMEN .
I am active with kids in community in religious community  a bit . just a bit .. fitness  art.. and so on but YOU GENTLEMEN  

  With time and experience  I  did leant  how to escape and wrap it it up- the fantasy and love- when time  with you is up- professionally and with no any emotions. yet loving
(Very valuable skill.. I need to say .. almost as valuable as a porno skills- if not  even more valuable...)

Dinners help me to  LOVE you  ..even for two hours.

 But there is no rule for me  as to sex sex after or before  or between .. sometime it is all but
 sometime in any other order and I just go by his desire and his customs.
 
Kiss you .
 Pavla

I do once before and once after. But if you have to choose, before.