I'm an ass man like the other poster so I love it. A lot of civvy girls aren't up for it at all. I've even seen guys called gay for so much as inserting a digit. I tend to seek out commercial situations that cater to my interests.
Do you like the ladies to play with your ASS ? If you want the lady to play with your ASS ... Do you let her know ? Or you are too SHY ?
I do enjoy it. I'm not shy about letting a provider know because it's a commercial experience she's being compensated for. I wouldn't force anything on anyone unwilling but if it's on her menu I'm up for it. My situation is moreso that I'm careful with civvy's because people run their mouth. I'm not a congressman or anything but some things are stigmatized and I'd rather keep them between discreet adults.