Met this other Asian dude one time and we got into a conflict because I wanted peas in my stir rice. That dude told me he didn't have an peas left, and I told him I wanted I wasn't going to pay for it. That fool said we don't give refunds, and I grabbed the dude and he karate kicked my ass yo. Next thing I know, someone is carry my ass out the China buffet joint.
Anyhow, like the other thread mentioned, proceed with caution. This is turning out to be quite an adventure, and lots hope it has a happy ending.
Tell that handler dude to stop fucking around and fucking up on the appointments. Just keep an eye out dude, and if things don't turn out right, then roll the fuck out of there. If I was in the same situation, I say fuck it and find a new girl. Too many inconsistencies with this booker. But, you do whatever makes you happy, and I can only give you my advise.