I am a friend of a middle aged married Caucasian woman in the gym. She really wants to have a baby and her husband has genetic issues that prevents her from becoming pregnant. She asked for my help with her husband's consent. I had sex with her on five different occasions and she is now pregnant expecting her baby in November.
What are my rights and liabilities if any?
You didn't mention any surrogate/adoption agreement that excludes you from any responsibilities. Unless you have that document, you're on the hook for the next 18 years for child support. Hopefully her husband will sign the birth certificate as the father. If he doesn't, then you should have a DNA test done to ensure the bambino is yours.
You also didn't make it clear what you want out of this situation. --z
Sorry I did not give more details about this subject. The couple are Canadians from Newfoundland and move to Florida in winter. After I read your response, I spoke with both of them and their only plan going forward is having and enjoying the bundle of joy. They have, at my request signed a notarized statement absolving me of any responsibility or support for the child. The notarized statement was filed and put on record in a local county court.
You are on the hook for full child support regardless of any agreement/contract you may have for 18 years AND possibly health insurance until age 27 (per current law)
You can get visitation rights, but custody given to a dad is rare and very expensive. It's best to have a discussion with the mom to see what her plans are. However, should she get divorced in a few years, you can expect the husband to say, "hell NO" to paying child support and the courts will seek you out fast. Child support is set by your state and based on your income, but it's always very expensive. Some states are worse than others
(1) If the woman's husband adopts the child, then he's the legal father. Even if he divorces his wife years from now, his legal status as the child's father wouldn't change.
(2) If the woman's husband signs the birth certificate as the father, then he becomes the 'putative father'. That term has legal weight and obligations in most states. OTOH, the putative father may later claim that his wife deceived him into thinking that he was the biological father. That could open a new paternity hearing.
The OP left out a lot of detail. He may have rushed into this situation without thinking it through. --
Ya think?
Paternity law varies from state to state. But generally speaking:
(1) If the woman's husband adopts the child, then he's the legal father. Even if he divorces his wife years from now, his legal status as the child's father wouldn't change.
(2) If the woman's husband signs the birth certificate as the father, then he becomes the 'putative father'. That term has legal weight and obligations in most states. OTOH, the putative father may later claim that his wife deceived him into thinking that he was the biological father. That could open a new paternity hearing.
The OP left out a lot of detail. He may have rushed into this situation without thinking it through. --z
his lesbian sister has asked him to be the sperm donor for her partner of 10 yrs. they would like the baby to have their family genes. multiple lawyers involved ( each one has his own). he gives up fraternal rights and they both agree not to file claims against him at a later date. wonder how ironclad this really is
I hope the pussy was incredible and a once in a lifetime experience , because you are a member of the baby daddy club and based on your 79 reviews your hobby allowance will be going elsewhere ......