I like it when the lady takes charge initially because I'm generally nervous meeting someone for the first time & then as things proceed, I tend to be more aggressive. Once the flag goes up, the male brain shuts down. I don't mind at all if the woman takes charge, really. Just don't decide to change positions every 30 seconds. That can be a little distracting... (and, yes, there are SPs who do this)
you want to take the lead in the sexual moment? I always like to learn from the kiss how things will lead. I mostly like it when it's a mutually sexual "I want you now" intense moment. Everyone has their own thing on what turns you on. Are you a ass man, or like the tits more, the hot kissing, or just anything goes as long as she is into it too?
Just wondering how the gentlemen pictures the first encounter when they are almost at our door?
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Larissa Pearla
Larissa, you just know exactly how a guy likes that first moment. I can say, from personal experience, that your way of jumping right in for the kiss and squeeze, and then going right for it is the way most guys like it. Keep it up!!
goes from that...
I think your idea of learning from the kiss how things will go is a good one. I like a mutual/slight lead from you. But I think if the guy wanted to really to lead you would be able to figure it out. Having met you, I would say that you nailed it perfectly!
The first kiss is clearly important, but it is really more. It starts with the very first contact through email or 411. You can begin to pick-up "chemistry"in the tone of the communication, i.e. Genuine excitement versus a template, is there personality behind the message, etc. Then it builds to the actual meeting day and the communications on that day. The "view" behind the door and the first kiss kind of seal the deal. For me, I generally know after that kiss generally how the rest of our time together is going to go. Some providers just have that aura about them that "takes over", others wait to be led. If the communications leading up to the meeting are more "template like" then I can usually expect the provider to not take the lead. In summary -- it is the whole "package" of events, communications, senses.... That's what makes it a thrill!
Things will proceed as I want them to, on my schedule, to my satisfaction. Some might call me a selfish lover, but that's just how I roll.
Each gal is different in how I approach them though, to be honest, based on their body type.
For you, based on your pics, I am thinking the main event to be almost solely doggie as I love to poke it from behind with the roundish derrière types like yourself.
Thank you for asking LP. Women rarely seem to want to hear the truth in this messed up PC world we all live in at the moment.
The only expectation is that we are both going to enjoy ourselves. As to how things proceed, we both have input, and if you both have positive attitudes and expectations, good things will likely happen. Sometimes that means she takes the lead, and at others, it's up to you. That's been the approach I've always taken, and it's generally worked for me. Just my three pennies...
I like it when the lady takes charge initially because I'm generally nervous meeting someone for the first time & then as things proceed, I tend to be more aggressive. Once the flag goes up, the male brain shuts down. I don't mind at all if the woman takes charge, really. Just don't decide to change positions every 30 seconds. That can be a little distracting... (and, yes, there are SPs who do this)
A provider has me or loses me with her kiss. A soft sensual kiss and I'm yours or you're mine. It doesen't matter
Thanks also to the gents that sent me a pm concerning the topic. I greatly appreciate all the feedback 
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