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That's what I'm hoping to find

posted 10 years ago

A few arrangements that I can depend on every month. I need to be a full time writer and artist and that kind of arrangement gives a sense of ease in knowing that my time and energy goes only to my benefactor friend and to my art. Then I don't need to spend energy to advertise or tour or anything other then the sure things in my life.

I think every girl comes from a different perspective. Have you asked her to be sincere in letting you know her reason? If it's to give her a sense of security so she can maybe quit stripping, and pursue her dream career or a thing she loves.. Priorities I guess are nice to know. Then you can feel you are helping someone along, as they also help you

allniteloong10 years ago894 reads

sugar baby or providers

I have this stripper friend thats wants to be my sugar baby. Basically i give her 2k a month plus gifts and see her at least once a week. Should i stick with this or go back to the amazing choices in escorts?
worried about her getting too clingy or grabby

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eroticspirit10 years ago654 reads

Re: Sugar Baby or Providers

IMHO a lot would depend on how dynamic the sugar baby is---if the sex with her is always great and exciting and she makes you feel like a king then I would say why tamper with such a nice arrangement. BUT---how long do you think that will last (if what I'm describing is true?)

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Pavliena10 years ago433 reads

It depends on girl and how well you know her and connect

also as to SB and SD - it is not big different then providers
same distance and just great sex - do not allow her and yourself opens a lot and have hopes for more

Just need to know what woman wants and if you able and ready to give that over the time
Yoiung woman wants take you from other women and own you..
while women as we are here - and I do have few clients as SD -
we just spend a lot of time and beyond of sex and if we need we invite a provider ..
he is free I am free .. he have all what he needs and from me and if needed for other women .. seem as you with SB SD arrangements limiting yourself and committing to something?
Just analyze if you ready help her with her long term goals ..and if it is ok with your plans ..
of course if she does not have such … she be going after your money and becomes greedy - find decent SB that all with dignity and goals
I think there many such women and here and in real life
I do enjoy my daddies :) we are bets friends .

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FloraFaun10 years ago610 reads

That's what I'm hoping to find

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JAYSAN113110 years ago541 reads

Sugar baby or providers

Dude,

I would suggest go for the providers.

I was in a similar position like you but it started getting too gruesome and she was more and more greedy, so better to go for the variety of providers , here in NY you will find some amazing girls and they have much more to offer.

Either way try to be aloof because in case you wanna get some strings attached you wont enjoy with neither the strippers nor the providers .

But i would advise to go for the strippers because you are the King.

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needitbad202010 years ago354 reads

Only You Can Answer That

Would you rather give her $2K and fuck her once a week. Or give that money to different women and fuck them.

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TheCauldronNYC10 years ago315 reads

If it ain't broke, don't fix it

I hate to admit it, and this may not be true for everyone, but girls tend "let themselves go" in the sugar daddy/baby relationship.

I know, I was guilty of it myself! It ends of becoming like any long term relationship. When the money is guaranteed - why work for it? You both start to take each other for granted, not to mention feeling obligated.

The girl resents you because you pay her rent (or half as would be the case with $2k in NYC) and suddenly she HAS to see you instead of wanting to see you.

She will confide in you about things you don't want to know...the mystery evaporates. Girlfriends problems become your problems. She will want more and more. I'm telling you--these kind of relationships take the magic out of it for both people and usually don't end well.

Just my personal thoughts...

Brooke