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FC's are AWESOME.
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Dear Zmannyc,

TER only recently added the FC info onto provider's profiles. Many women have been loving and using FCs for quite a while now but don't realize it is a searchable item on TER within profiles.

There are a couple downsides to the FC, but in my opinion they are totally worth it!

1. It does take a moment to insert, as someone has mentioned. However- hey, it takes a moment to put on a male condom too, is the few seconds really that big of a difference? And also as mentioned- one can multitask. I personally like to either make a show of it or continue kissing in the meantime.

2. Yes, the outer ring stays on the outside. To me this is an aesthetic downside. One person mentioned it is a hinderance to oral- but I have never experienced that. You just move it out of the way- it's very flexible.

3. Lastly, more lubrication is needed with the FC. It makes no difference how wet your partner gets, all of the friction is on YOU. So more lube is needed.

3.5 I hesitate to call this a downside, but there does need to be a level of trust in using one of these. Either self trust (being comfortable) with the insertion and feel of the FC on the provider's part, and/or between you both. It's very easy for it to be inserted incorrectly and/or pushed in (therefore making it ineffective). A provider who has not had much experience with them may be uncomfortable in trusting it to protect. If you meet with a provider who likes them, this obviously is not an issue.

Those are my "expert" opinions. ;) There are upsides galore, so I'll save that tome for another day.

Kiss me,

Kate

I recently was introduced to female condom by a recent provider - Loved it!!!
Few providers include this in their profiles, I now always ask upfront during the reservation process and found that many do, although not listed.
Curious to know others experiences and if their is a downside or exposure I am unaware of.

I would prefer to use them all the time! It is on my profile and just get a thrill when the gent tells me that is what he wants ;)

To me it makes the whole experience feel so much more amazing! Also, with doubles its great because it avoids the awkward have to stop to change condom moment.

I do ask sometimes if I feel the gent is open to it. But, its much better when he lets me know that he likes them as well.

xoxo

Larissa Pearl

Doesnt the male feel the interior rubber ring upon penetration?
I know sometimes you feel the ring on a diaphragm during penetration with significant others that you do not need to use protection.
BTW, the spermicide used on diaphragms have a chemical that also kills the HIV & Herpes viruses (read this on the CDC and NYC DOH websites) but as they say, nothing is perfect, so if you are unsure of your significant other use protection.

Posted By: LarissaPearla
I would prefer to use them all the time! It is on my profile and just get a thrill when the gent tells me that is what he wants ;)  
   
 To me it makes the whole experience feel so much more amazing! Also, with doubles its great because it avoids the awkward have to stop to change condom moment.  
   
 I do ask sometimes if I feel the gent is open to it. But, its much better when he lets me know that he likes them as well.  
   
 xoxo  
   
 Larissa Pearla  
   
 

and with the right woman they're SPECTACULAR    :)

I absolutely love them but I don't think a lot of people have caught on yet about them. Glad TER added it to the provider info,
Xoxo
Taylor

I concur that the female variety is much better, but not all ladies have them in their kits.  If it's a big deal for you to have this option, it wouldn't hurt to have a couple on hand yourself.  Also, these are definitely a plus during doubles...

I personally love to use female condoms while having a threesome.  Something about being able to move seamlessly from girl to girl is so hot!

With the use of a female condom-the outer most parts of the female anatomy are covered with a latex ring and latex tail hanging out of the vagina-now doesnt this slow things down on the intimacy ans application of oral and manual stimulation of the female? If partaking in oral stim and manual stim reaching all sensitive areas, then have to delay to insert and apply the female condom, the male will lose his erection in the few minutes it takes for proper application.
I would agree great for threesomes, but then again, doesnt allow easy access for oral stim.

Posted By: ElegantElaineNYC
I personally love to use female condoms while having a threesome.  Something about being able to move seamlessly from girl to girl is so hot!

The women I spend time with find ways to keep you entertained while inserting it.  My most frequent friend usually has me lay back and she gives me head while shes inserting it.  Since she's bent forward I don't even always know she's doing it until she's done.

If you're doing doubles like the person you were responding to, one of them dang well better be able to keep you interested while the other is taking care of the mechanics.

and use them from time to time, I prefer traditional men condoms, but some men have better feel using female condoms.

Dear Zmannyc,

TER only recently added the FC info onto provider's profiles. Many women have been loving and using FCs for quite a while now but don't realize it is a searchable item on TER within profiles.

There are a couple downsides to the FC, but in my opinion they are totally worth it!

1. It does take a moment to insert, as someone has mentioned. However- hey, it takes a moment to put on a male condom too, is the few seconds really that big of a difference? And also as mentioned- one can multitask. I personally like to either make a show of it or continue kissing in the meantime.

2. Yes, the outer ring stays on the outside. To me this is an aesthetic downside. One person mentioned it is a hinderance to oral- but I have never experienced that. You just move it out of the way- it's very flexible.

3. Lastly, more lubrication is needed with the FC. It makes no difference how wet your partner gets, all of the friction is on YOU. So more lube is needed.

3.5 I hesitate to call this a downside, but there does need to be a level of trust in using one of these. Either self trust (being comfortable) with the insertion and feel of the FC on the provider's part, and/or between you both. It's very easy for it to be inserted incorrectly and/or pushed in (therefore making it ineffective). A provider who has not had much experience with them may be uncomfortable in trusting it to protect. If you meet with a provider who likes them, this obviously is not an issue.

Those are my "expert" opinions. ;) There are upsides galore, so I'll save that tome for another day.

Kiss me,

Kate

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