Hey guys,
I am not very experienced in the sugar world - I was active and had a little success but took a long break after getting frustrated. Getting back into it now and was just wondering - most of the ladies profiles talk about wanting to go out and do fun things together, dinners, dancing, etc. My question is how many of you guys are actually planning evenings out with these girls vs. just a meet up at a hotel/her place and just BCD fun?
and boilerplate filler material. Of course I am not discounting them as dishonest but in a very high percentage of cases on SA, the cash allowance (per meet or otherwise) is the most crucial factor.
Personally speaking, my SB and I engage in no holds barred activities which you have mentioned in your post (sans dancing, can't go there!) which happen between say within a traditional BF/GF relationship, but I am under no illusion that it is purely a sugar based relationship which means if the allowance stops or "not tonight babe, I have a headache" is uttered, the liaison will be over.
But I have had a couple of arrangements which always included going out to eat as part of the date. And I've even had one SB hop on my BMW motorcycle with me for a nice long ride. So it's possible, and enjoyable if you are both into it.
Current SB BCD only and nothing outside. Most recent pevious did BG/GF dates and she was getting more serious so I stopped it, I don't want or need GF and I didn't want her to get deeper into GF thoughts.
But remember you are the boss. Not done dancing yet. Given the age differences it will look lame or even pathetic.