I don't know what market you are in, but that's a lot to lay out for that limited services. I wouldn't pay a pro that much for non gfe, forget about an SB. She's not going to renegotiate because you've validated that she's worth x to you... You have to stick with it or bail. Either way, don't do that again.
One of the early gals I met had a limited menu and Does not have her own place. I have seen her maybe 3 or 4 times in a per meet type of arrangement. We agreed to 400 and all in it's a 500-550 per meet outlay. She's young, pretty, good in the sack, but again with a limited menu, no dfw or bbbj. I wouldn't mind seeing her, but the price seems off base. It's not easy for me to make new contacts at home base, so I'm inclined to keep with gals I know. Do I mention a lower per meet, of just stop responding and move on? If renegotiating is worth it, suggestions on how to bring it up? Thx.
I don't know what market you are in, but that's a lot to lay out for that limited services. I wouldn't pay a pro that much for non gfe, forget about an SB. She's not going to renegotiate because you've validated that she's worth x to you... You have to stick with it or bail. Either way, don't do that again.
You can do better. No use paying less for only fair bcd time. Get a new girl, try her out for a while and then dump the old one when you're sure of things.
For $500-550 in most parts of the country you can get 90-120 minutes with a GFE hooker.
I doubt I would pay more than a hundred bucks or two hundred at the very most for a non GFE SB.
Why so reluctant to change things up.
Then I would have dropped her after our second meeting if I felt the passion isn't there, which it seem like there's very little from her end. I would just go radio silence on her, she'll get the hint. If you try to mention a lower amount to "meet" then she could go BSC or your dates might suffer either in duration of time or her performance will sink lower, although no DFK and BBBJ is pretty low in my world. She won't see you in the same light as before so why chance it. So I'd just drop her....But that's easy for me to say.
other alternatives are not presenting themselves, it's hard to give up on a sure thing just because it's too expensive for what you get. Still, you need to expend the energy and time to develop a new SB and then you'll feel better about dropping this current one. After you quit seeing her and quit talking to her she just might get real enough to beg you for your company again. Then you'll be in a good position to offer less money. Often times these girls have no idea about their competition. I have gently informed many of them who have unrealistic expectation$$ that I've had wonderful arrangements with lovely SBs in which we eagerly anticipated each date and I gave her a gift of $200 or $250 per visit, which is the god's honest truth. OK if she's the hottest thing on the planet I'm willing to go up a bit. But If they don't see the merit in that type of arrangement I move on.
I saw a girl from WV for half that amount. Granted, she was somewhat a trailer trash (she actually lives in a trailer) but she was cute, sweet, and would do anything I asked in bed. Unless you live in NYC or LA, 500 goes a long way in the Sugar World. Even if she looks like a model IRL, I wouldn't pay 500 for a non-GFE SB. The main point of getting a SB is the GFE element (more genuine than with the hookers). Without it, I might as well go with a hooker since I am only good for one pop so 90 minutes BCD is more than enough for me.
Tell her you will feel closer to her emotionally if she does DFK and BBBJ (this is BS of course, but there is no harm in trying and some girls might buy it). I once talked a girl into doing anal with me. If she still says no, I hope you know what you should do.