Just fascinating to see how an SB rationalizes the quid pro quo concept.
So fucking for money makes them sluts, but "I just can't have sex with you without a gift, I'm worth it" when you have just paid big bucks for clothes, bills, travel, or whatever means they won't compromise their integrity... like a slut! :p Gotta love this!Just curious;
Any one been to any of these events? I believe SA sets them up a few times a year in NY and possibly LA.
They are supposedly attended by many POT SB's and several SD's and held in a 4/5 star hotel with dinner, open bar, etc. If you have attended and don't mind sharing:
1. How many SB's and SD's where there?
2. Was there some type of vetting/validation/ID check to get in? (In addition to the attendance fee.)
3. Did you or anyone you were aware of, hook up with an SB (presumably in your previously booked hotel room)?
4. Get any connections that turned into successful STR's or LTR's
I knew we were winding down our situation so I paid her fee and let her borrow my car. She got all dressed up. Mani. Pedi etc....she was VERY disappointed. She told me the ladies there were sluts that were willing to just fuck for money. Some were even going to a hotel straight from the party! Lol. I didnt point out the fact that I paid her money. The great SB contradiction regarding hookers!
Just fascinating to see how an SB rationalizes the quid pro quo concept.
So fucking for money makes them sluts, but "I just can't have sex with you without a gift, I'm worth it" when you have just paid big bucks for clothes, bills, travel, or whatever means they won't compromise their integrity... like a slut! :p
Gotta love this!
This woman who is a comedienne used to (and still may very well be) date older men IRL. When much younger she was purportedly in a LTR with one of the (ex) Matchbox20 band members. She used to blog for XOJane and here is one of SB events she attended:
Interesting article. Thank you for sharing it.
is that the SA M&G events are sh*tshows and I would not personally attend one if I was paid for it. Once, I attended a TER M&G in LA back in 2011 and that was one really eye opening personal experience, so much so that I quit this "hobby" and went in the direction of SA instead 
that were sponsors by Escort agencies and did not enjoy the experience. Even though it was kinda fun to see the women in person, I did not enjoy rubbing shoulders with all the men I was in competition with. A M&G for Sugar Babies seems like a bad idea. It's difficult enough putting time and energy into chatting up a girl when you already know where she lives and how much $ she wants.
and by and large I enjoyed the M&Gs I hosted and/or attended, but in the hooker world I never felt I was in "competition" with any of the other mongers. I don't think I would feel the same way at an SB M&G.
In the hooker world it's an accepted fact that both the men and the women are fucking literally everything that walks, in the sugar world there is at least the illusion of exclusivity. I don't really like the idea of "competing" for SB's with other SD's, I would have no interest in such a M&G unless the odds were stacked 5-1 in the men's favor, and even then the hottest girls will end up getting all the attention and I am in the sugar/hooker world to have women compete for my attentions, not the other way around.