I have had many hooks up with civvy chicks, some ended in a night of crazy passion, others in crazy weeping while we are both naked and my dick in her hands!! Or me drving all kinds of ways to confuse a chick so she can't get back to my place....but they all end with some type of baggage positive or negative, avoid the drama and emotional roller coaster and go the Hobby route.

Also appreciate you trying to find a solutionto your health issue, because it not only affects you, it affects all of us that hobby as well as the ladies who allow us to have a hobby