The info requested (wspecially SSN is over the top and I would never provide it. But the way you are stating all of this is just turning people off.
Posted By: NoToFlakyGirls P411, TER and DC with a valid email and phone number as screening. Also, get them to forget about people showing a valid ID with the legal name and last 4 of SSN. Don't make it too hard for us to see girls, man.
Before I go on critiquing, let me ask you the followings:
Did she offer GREEK without additional charge? You did not mention that.
Did she offer MSOG after your first pop? probably not, as over 90% escorts want you to get one out and leave. Therefore, she did not earn that '10.'
Finally, did she watch her time or made you rush because the time was almost up?
These are important things for us to know. We, hobbyists, shouldn't be giving away 10's too easily.
Any 10's without valid reasons should be tossed. Some providers truly work hard and honestly to earn that.
Anyways, in your case, it did seem like she "earned" that 9. After all, she did offer a legitimate GFE that you were satisfied with. I didn't see her in real life, so I cannot agree or disagree with her look.