Have any of you ever got together with other daddy's to compare notes on SB's in your areas?
This is my second go around dipping into the sugar jar. I've always been a casual monger, mostly waiting until popular pornstars came to town to play but a few years ago during a crazy stretch of grad school I tried SA and had great success. Once grad school was over and I could date normally I let my membership expire and went back to traditional dating. Well I was quasi forced into selling some stock before the end of the year and had some expendable income to play with and since Atlanta isn't known for pornstar providers I tried SA again and it's been nuts for the last couple weeks. I try to armage meets n greets asap upon our 1st contacts. My 1st one was a young 19 year old who looks like Elsa Jean the porn star. Meet went well and 2nd date set which she then canceled an hour before I was leaving to go to the hotel. Rescheduled at my place and wasn't disappointed. Great body and decent BCD. With that success I decide to stick with 18 to 21 yr olds and as many have stated in treads below they can be ditzy, erratic and not dependable but I enjoy the game and in the last month have meet up for cofffee with 5 and have had BCD with all but one of them. On the other side of things I had a recent 'married but looking' contact and favorite my account. She is 38 and her hubby has no idea she's on SA. Or at least that's her claim. Body wise she is a 10, and about a 7 or 8 in the face for her age. I'm 40, look ynounger and in better shape than 99% of the male population ( not a gym rat but I have almost dozen ironmans under my belt). She is wanting 500 plus uber fair and isn't willing to negotiate and it's not an over night. I tried to negotiate as many have described in prior treads and ended up just walking away. Just a few thoughts but I've had great fun with the younger SB so far and some resistance with those closer to my age.I initially tried to stay above age 30 but soon found these ladies tend to have a high opinion of their value (see my thread below) and also bring a lot of personal baggage as well.
The 18 to 21 is just too young for me. Ive had great luck in the 25 to 30 range. Not as flaky as the young ones and a lot have great bodies.
I tend to agree with SFTD. I was initially too weirded out about the 18-21 range but tried to reach out to some. All I got was aggravation (oh! my car broke down, I can't come to the meet and greet without getting fixed first hint-hint). The 25-30s have been golden for me. Found my unicorn at the bottom end of that range.
I have one SB in the 40's but she is more like an escort than a SB, but I am not complaining. And she doesn't watch the clock. Actually, I do so I can get home on time. ha ha ha. I still get several hours with her at a much cheaper rate than a pro.
You made the right decision to pass on the older SB holding out for 500.
All of my 35+ (up to 48) yr old POT's have been one-meet experiences. Either it's too much sugar, too much desire to mother me/really want to marry a low self-esteem wealthy putz they can control, find someone to care/pay/father her kids, or just weren't attractive up close.
For me, the 22-27 range has been the most successful for a generally good arrangement, especially if you want to travel with her. But I do keep looking for those 18-21 yr old POT's. The few I've found out of the dozens I've talked to have been off the hook BCD and usually happy with moderate sugar p4p activity.
Again, patience favors the SD's in the Sugar Bowl.
Interesting idea to have local meets... not sure how many would attend.
18-21's are nice to look at but don't communicate well, flake out and disappear, are NOT experienced BCD and are totally oblivious to the real world. That said I have one 19 year old Asian in my rotation. Horny as hell, a little larger but not fat that my normal type and very mature for her age. I do not actively seek that age group any more.
25-30 is the prime age for me. Young enough to still be hot, experienced BCD and understand the
"rules" of SB. Love them.
As crazy as it sounds--and as time wasting and annoying as it is--I enjoy the chase. Even ones that don't pan out. Love communicating with all of them. I would say my success rate--BCD meet after initial contact is about 20% but that's still enough. I have 5 in the rotation and keep looking. When I find a new one, I dump one. I usually meet 1 a week ($300 average gift) and will continue as long as funds allow.
Have fun guys
and maybe that's just an excuse, but I do seem to gravitate towards the younger college age SBs. They are terribly flaky and more often than not disappear before going BCD. But when it works it's sheer delight. Many of my atf SBs have been 18 or 19. That said, my longest term arrangements and my most reliable ones have been in the 23 and up range. And as others have said, going up to 30+ seems to be too much baggage. So I'll keep on approaching the ones I find attractive in the 18 to upper 20s range as long as I'm able.
I have met other local SDs for the purpose of discussing matters of mutual interest. This has only happened after long email/message exchanges to develop a solid friendship and trust. It's worked out well. We have talked about SBs and Escorts too, women we both have met or both want to meet. Sometimes we've been able to offer each other helpful insights. And of course we have agreed explicitly never to poach from each other. This kind of meeting with another SD can be quite enjoyable and useful. But be careful out there, there are sharks in these waters too!