Question for any of you guys that have gone from a monthly arrangement to pay per meet basis. Just too much drama with the younger ladies who like to go out partying and then aren't available when you want to do something. So I basically told her that the monthly arrangement can't work for our situations and that I could see her on a part time basis, basically pay per meet. She seems fine with that, but not sure what I should expect as far as fun time goes? Is she secretly going to be bitter and the fun won't be as fun anymore?
Have any of you guys gone through this and had success with it still being fun and kinky after you change the terms of the arrangement? My guess is that it's probably going to go downhill and I'll just stop seeing her altogether. Or, there's a slight chance she misses the 2X week fun get together and kicks it up a notch to try and get back to a monthly arrangement. ..but I doubt it.
Thoughts? Thx
This is why I stay away from monthly arrangements.
There is always a chance that she will not be available (or that I will not be available) enough to "cover" the assumed sugar time that justifies the monthly amount. That means you bear all the risk of paying for time/sugar you are not getting. And I never believe the promise that she will "make it up to me." In the few times I've tried that, she always says something like "but I can't see you if you don't have a gift for me!" This totally ignores the math from the previous month's overpaid allowance. I think SB's have an innate blind spot for any and all sugar you have given in the past. They just don't recognize the idea of prepaid fun.
Instead, I use her monthly ask to justify my p4p counter offer. If she wants 1200 a month, I counter with something like "come see me 3 or 4 times a month and you can get 1200-1600 to cover your rent and school, plus have some extra for fun." I go on to propose that if we enjoy our times together we can always revisit the monthly option in the future
I would be surprised if more than 10% of arrangements are actually monthly.
ZERO. I have not, and will not enter into any kind of monthly arrangement with an SB, I might entertain something weekly, but I will take pains to make sure that weekly doesn't turn out to be "weakly" lol
Never even considered or really had it come up in conversation.
My guesses:
70% or more say they are looking for it.
40-60% say they are doing it or have done it recently.
5-10% are currently doing it and 20-30% have done it at one time or other.
Lots of ladies have expressed interest but they are delusional about what they think they are worth on a per meet basis. Anywhere from 750 to 2000.
One wanted 800 flowers. Her term. I felt like replying does that include msog, daty, and bbbjcimnqs. Lol
Come to think of it what option do you have but to go per meet since the monthly is not working out for you. You can always kick her out if it does not work out
Have any of you guys gone through this and had success with it still being fun and kinky after you change the terms of the arrangement? My guess is that it's probably going to go downhill and I'll just stop seeing her altogether. Or, there's a slight chance she misses the 2X week fun get together and kicks it up a notch to try and get back to a monthly arrangement. ..but I doubt it.
Thoughts? Thx
the one time that I caved in and bought her a car upfront! I'm regretting it. First she disappeared for 5 weeks and now she says she wants to get me to give her the title soon by having as many dates as possible in January. Really? She owes me 11 more dates and is making me feel like she wants to get it over with as fast as she can. OTOH, all my other arrangements have been pay per visit. And every one of them have been visits that we both looked forward to eagerly, a far cry from this "prepaid" deal. I'll never do that again!
....that it usually takes LOTS of time together to develope the level of trust necessary to sustain it....also, in my experience, the level of expectations of particularly the sugar daddy in a monthly deal are generally too high...ALL KINDS of PROBLEMS ARE THE RESULT !
If she has not fulfilled her end of the deal so far, she might still be willing to fuck you again a time or two on a per meet basis but don't expect any real passion from her !
Attempting to put Hmpty Dumbty back together again is a fools game ;-(