I never ask that question because I don't want to know the answer! I am quite sure she would not like my number. We know each of us is more than one, that's good enough for me!
During cuddle time I asked my SB how many guys she been with and she responded less than 10. And then she asked me and I said at least 162 (number of ter reviews I have). She started laughing and said you're such a bad liar.
Man what's the point of honesty
Just kidding. Lol.
I never ask that question because I don't want to know the answer! I am quite sure she would not like my number. We know each of us is more than one, that's good enough for me!
Agree. It's not a discussion I want to have...
How many I've had? In over 30 years of an active sex life including a few GF's, mongering, strip club VIP's with extras, and in the last 6 years Sugaring, it has to be at least 200+. That is NOT a number I want an SB to contemplate.
How many has she had? Given that my total sugar will not (will never) be more than 10-20% of her total income, I always assume that she has at least 1 other SD (or BF or ??). I don't want to go down that path either by asking. Too easy to get me thinking about how I compare, too much risk of getting her to try to get us to out bid each other for time/sugar.
I do have one part-time Unicorn that I've been on and off with for years. I asked her once if she had ever been with a woman and she confided that she has a female SMommy. In fact the reason why I was on and off again was because she was flipping between the two of us, usually 3 or 4 months at a time. Anyway, she's a 27 yr old Filipino, great body, new perky boobs and totally unreserved in sex play. All for a small p4p present.
If I knew, then it wouldn't be enough.
How many guys have I been with? ZERO. lol
I almost had a similar situation come up recently. An SB I was seeing was commenting how good I was at DATY, she then mentioned it was probably because I had done it "thousands of times" so I better be good at it by now, and then she was quick to add "Thousand of times, but I am sure NOT thousands of women, right?" I simply smiled and went back to work, she quickly forgot the question. lol
to know how many men they've been with and how many others they are seeing at present. And I don't mind them knowing my score if they ask.
I mean if you are in your sixties and admit/boast of having had "hundreds: of previous sexual partners, that's one thing. but I still haven't found a tactful way of telling a woman that she is number 4,325 on my ever growing list. Truthfully, I don't even have a clue as to how many women I have slept with in the 43 years that I have been sexually active, but I do know that even "high volume" hookers sometimes have an issue with my "number"
Personally, I subscribe to the "don't ask, don't tell" philosophy. Honesty can be overrated.