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Been there, been a broke 19 yo virgin in NY, it ain't easy
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That was over 25 years ago.  My first experience was with a peep booth gal from Times Square whom I met when her shift was over.  I don't recommend that route.  It was expensive making the connection (weeks of peep booth before she "knew" me well enough to meet me) then I hadda pay for the cheap ass hotel room AND still pay her, her 150.  It was a great experience because she did "teach me" well, especially about how to please a woman orally, and what not to do as well.  She took her time.  But I was lucky it turned out well as it did.  As a dumb kid, I had tried to pick up 42nd street streetwalkers and had already been robbed once.  As a horn dog virgin on a mission I was clueless.  Don't go my route because:

Number one, there ain't as many peep shows as there used to be.
Number two, highly likely that I could have been ripped off, mugged by a BF or pimp
Number three, cost in the long run when figured out finally was 10 x more than it should have been
Number four, she wasn't very safe.  Ie. rubber broke halfway through and she said, "keep going, I'm on the pill, and since you're a virgin, you don't have anything". Afterwards I thought about it and had the Aw shit moment of, yeah, I'm safe but what about HER!!!  Thankfully I never got anything and after 25 yrs of testing, have never got anything. LUCK
Number five: a few weeks later found a review newspaper (Think TER in print form) and found an AMP that came highly rated for 1/3 the cost.  Plus I got a table shower and a massage along with the FS/BJ.  That kept me going for a year till I went back to that same review newspaper and found several providers all within my price range with in calls.  When I left and got my own apt. I found a reliable agency and hosted out calls to my apt for several years (again, not something I would do today, it was stupid and risky). Altogether I've spent probably more on providers than I did on my college education.

My advice is: find a civvie and make her your gf.  It's more socially acceptable, less risk (except to your heart, but that's another story) and you probably won't get beat up, robbed or sent to jail.

My point is, don't be stupid, use other people's experiences as lessons and do it right if you're gonna be a monger despite advice to the contrary, read the newbie board, save your ducats, do your research and for God's sake, take down the post with your email address.  Do you WANT to be busted by LE?  (At best) or rolled and robbed, perhaps beaten or killed (at worst!). I wouldn't trust any email you've gotten on that acct since you posted here.  In fact, nuke the account and open a new one just for hobbying.  Open a separate one for regular email and NEVER give that out to anyone in this world of providers, pimps and who knows who!  Delay your horny ass another month and buy a year's membership with TER use bit coin or a money order if you don't have a credit card.  Do research and find a reputable provider.  Don't dismiss a BP gal because her rating is only a 7, cuz that's what your price range is calling for,  read the reviews, don't go with a chick who doesn't have reviews, read the reviews of the people who reviewed her to see how "real" it all seems.  In the end, you just gotta take the plunge.  I wouldn't even mention age unless you look like you're younger than you are, in which case you're kinda screwed (not in the good way).  As for getting screened, again, save your ducats, get p411.  Find a lady who is newbie friendly (be prepared to pay more than that $250 range more like 350 - 400) and don't be picky about age.  A MILF is a perfect starter provider because if she's a good egg, she'll show you the ropes, like my first timer MILF showed me.

NassauLion931089 reads

I posted a thread like this one before but I was looking for something too specific. Now I'm just hoping someone could recommend a provider within New York preferably Long Island and that's donation rate is around $250 or less. Not really looking for something too expensive or too long of a date just something to get my adult life started to give me a taste and motivate me to find a girlfriend in college. Thank you to anyone who is willing to help me. If this matters a prefer Caucasian. Thank you.

I have to unread messages which someone probably sent me after reading one of my other threads, I have a basic membership so if you want to send me something in a pm send it to my email please [email protected] (I hope I'm not violating any terms putting my email up.)

Posted By: Desperatevirgin
I posted a thread like this one before but I was looking for something too specific. Now I'm just hoping someone could recommend a provider within New York preferably Long Island and that's donation rate is around $250 or less. Not really looking for something too expensive or too long of a date just something to get my adult life started to give me a taste and motivate me to find a girlfriend in college. Thank you to anyone who is willing to help me. If this matters a prefer Caucasian. Thank you.

Especially if it contains your real name.  If so, take it down immediately.
As for a recommendation, sorry, but I don't see girls in that price range, preferring women who charge $300-$500.
One who charges $400 comes to mind.  Amazing Kitten.  She has an ad up on the NY board.  She'd be perfect.  So save up and go to see her.  If it's your first experience, why settle for mediocre?

I did find a few and some replied but then stopped after I told them my age which is 19 and then the ones I did find out also charged pretty crazy prices for me. I just want a recommendation around the donation of 250 or less for an hour or something. Lol I can't seem to find anyone and this one girls her reviews are ok and but there are some crazy warnings such as her being very thug like with a good attitude and her pimps. So I just wanted to know if there are any providers willing to me. This one provider who I contacted said providers rarely see anyone under 30 and told me to wait for that special person instead because it's worth it. Which I will do but I want to do other things that doesn't involve intercourse. (nothing freaky lol)

Posted By: WickedBrut

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In general, providers are going to be very wary of servicing anyone that young.

While I sympathize with the gal who turned you down (nothing against you, my friend, but I understand her reasons), I also must say that "waiting for that special someone" thing is bullshit.  I'm not a parent, but if I did have a son (who was, say, 16 or 17), and I thought he was having problems in the girl department, I would absolutely set up an appointment for him with a mid-20ish provider who would treat him nicely, and kind of just give him an idea of "how it all works".

Long Island in particular is a provider wasteland for various reasons; you'd do better with NYC.  Most of the girls on TER are going to be out of your price range, sadly.  I think you might do better looking at Eros or Back Pages.  Having said that, be very careful.  You are talking (generally) about a lower-grade of provider than the typical TER girl, and you'll be at higher risk of shit going sideways.

So if something doesn't feel right going in, you have my permission (like that's worth anything) to call it a rainout at the last second or just bolt out of there if necessary.

Good luck!

MakingMeGrow467 reads

Although you don't specifically say what you are looking for just that you prefer Caucasian, you are probably best off going to Manhattan and trying an AMP instead such as My Asian GFE. You will get the complete experience within your price point and be happy you did. I would not mention age although I don't think AMPs are gonna ask too much anyway. Whatever you decide Good Luck!

I'm sorry but you are a complete idiot.  What father would set his 16/17 year old up with an escort just because he thinks his son is having problems in the girl department.

You are awarded the idiot of the year award.

Just out of curiosity, if you had a 16/17 year old daughter who wanted to escort, would you be her pimp?

As to your last sentence giving him your permission, i can only assume your brain cells have trickled down into your other limp head.

RokkKrinn391 reads

...and seeing a provider does not = escorting which in turn does not = pimping.

As for my permission:  That advice was offered somewhat in jest.

I'll give you this much ground, though:  Allow me to qualify my thought a bit.  If I had a son of 16/17 who was having trouble with girls, and who I knew wanted to have the experience of being with a woman, in order to gain information/awareness/confidence with the opposite sex, then I would make the arrangements I described.  If this hypothetical son wanted to wait, wasn't ready, wasn't sure of his gender preferences, I certainly wouldn't impose it upon him.  I should have stated that.  So I'll take a partial charge for that portion of my post.

But hey, it was just a quick post that I kind of threw out there just before I hit the sack.  If I go overly-long in my posts, I know people kind of tune them out; so I went for shorter and pithier this time, and now I'm catching shit for that as well.  I can't please everybody.

Most providers won't see someone that is very young (19). Personally I prefer someone that is at least 35 years old because I've seen 18 and 19 year olds...and the experiences were less than pleasant.

Thank you everyone for the advice and some recommendations! I would like your opinion on this provider she seems new. Once again thank you all for your comments and advice!

If you seriously can't contribute more to the board than your lazy ass sarcasm then why do you pollute the board at all? Its not like you have been some life line for anyone other than your own ego. Lets talk a little more about all of those O's you provided to the ladies you paid to pretend they enjoyed being with you.  

 
Oh wait, thats it, Search; ACTRESSES. Thats about as easy as Tarzana

the best thing you can do is get over to the Newbie Board, read the Self-Help manual and ask lots of questions.  Good luck.
I don't know how someone of your age and lack of experience with this game can get screened.  That's a real Catch-22 situation.

Shootfighter402 reads

from an anonymous message board?

Anyone could come on here and post something like "you should visit XXX Honey" in Hell's Kitchen.

How would you know that her boyfriend/pimp isn't waiting to beat the crap out of you and take your money?  

Why not? Because someone recommended her on the internet? There are a lot scams out there.  

You also LE to worry about.

You're exactly the of person who would get busted in the typical sting operation. Google flush the johns. They practically had you in mind.

Learn to do your own homework.

Your budget is low. Average is at least 300. If you cant expand on your budget, think about a trip into NYC to visit a house. Its your best bet.

That was over 25 years ago.  My first experience was with a peep booth gal from Times Square whom I met when her shift was over.  I don't recommend that route.  It was expensive making the connection (weeks of peep booth before she "knew" me well enough to meet me) then I hadda pay for the cheap ass hotel room AND still pay her, her 150.  It was a great experience because she did "teach me" well, especially about how to please a woman orally, and what not to do as well.  She took her time.  But I was lucky it turned out well as it did.  As a dumb kid, I had tried to pick up 42nd street streetwalkers and had already been robbed once.  As a horn dog virgin on a mission I was clueless.  Don't go my route because:

Number one, there ain't as many peep shows as there used to be.
Number two, highly likely that I could have been ripped off, mugged by a BF or pimp
Number three, cost in the long run when figured out finally was 10 x more than it should have been
Number four, she wasn't very safe.  Ie. rubber broke halfway through and she said, "keep going, I'm on the pill, and since you're a virgin, you don't have anything". Afterwards I thought about it and had the Aw shit moment of, yeah, I'm safe but what about HER!!!  Thankfully I never got anything and after 25 yrs of testing, have never got anything. LUCK
Number five: a few weeks later found a review newspaper (Think TER in print form) and found an AMP that came highly rated for 1/3 the cost.  Plus I got a table shower and a massage along with the FS/BJ.  That kept me going for a year till I went back to that same review newspaper and found several providers all within my price range with in calls.  When I left and got my own apt. I found a reliable agency and hosted out calls to my apt for several years (again, not something I would do today, it was stupid and risky). Altogether I've spent probably more on providers than I did on my college education.

My advice is: find a civvie and make her your gf.  It's more socially acceptable, less risk (except to your heart, but that's another story) and you probably won't get beat up, robbed or sent to jail.

My point is, don't be stupid, use other people's experiences as lessons and do it right if you're gonna be a monger despite advice to the contrary, read the newbie board, save your ducats, do your research and for God's sake, take down the post with your email address.  Do you WANT to be busted by LE?  (At best) or rolled and robbed, perhaps beaten or killed (at worst!). I wouldn't trust any email you've gotten on that acct since you posted here.  In fact, nuke the account and open a new one just for hobbying.  Open a separate one for regular email and NEVER give that out to anyone in this world of providers, pimps and who knows who!  Delay your horny ass another month and buy a year's membership with TER use bit coin or a money order if you don't have a credit card.  Do research and find a reputable provider.  Don't dismiss a BP gal because her rating is only a 7, cuz that's what your price range is calling for,  read the reviews, don't go with a chick who doesn't have reviews, read the reviews of the people who reviewed her to see how "real" it all seems.  In the end, you just gotta take the plunge.  I wouldn't even mention age unless you look like you're younger than you are, in which case you're kinda screwed (not in the good way).  As for getting screened, again, save your ducats, get p411.  Find a lady who is newbie friendly (be prepared to pay more than that $250 range more like 350 - 400) and don't be picky about age.  A MILF is a perfect starter provider because if she's a good egg, she'll show you the ropes, like my first timer MILF showed me.

Always love hearing about the darker side of NY back in the day. You sound like you've led an interesting life, Fridays. Thanks for sharing.

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I have to agree with Fridays.  Do what you have to do to be verified by p411, then see a newbie friendly provider.  You should think about spending in the $400 range in NYC.  There are some amazing ladies who charge less, but they may not necessarily be newbie friendly, so you've got to pay your dues first.  And then relax and have some fun!

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And stay the hell away from Backpage and Eros.  Those are for people who can sort through the bullshit.  Stick to the safe path when you're starting out...

and go find a spanish girl in the bronx you can go to one of those places where they have a couple of girls to choose from. You need a spanish girl from the bronx for your first time!

Call up jewelsofnyc or gentlemanschoice, they charge 250 for the hour and 160 for half an hour. Is perfect for your price range. They have some great providers from all backgrounds, though some of the ladies are VIP and charge 300. They will not ask you your age, but only will do an LE check when you get to the location.

Best advice I can give is use an agency like JONY or her sister agency GC. They have girls from all backgrounds and they will not question you about you being 19. Their price range is just about what you seek and many of their providers are awesome and very GFE.

Whatever you do, don't use backpage.

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