Don't discount that she may offer a multihour package with multihour rate discounts. It is always possible.
I've seen providers tweet while at bars and hanging out having fun. I'm a hobbiest, and sometimes I've seen a provider during the day, only to see them tweeting about being out on the town later that night. To be honest, I'm a bit envious. I'd love to join them and just have a fun, social time. However, I can't afford multi-hour rates.
Do providers ever just hang out, socially, for fun?
No, I'm not looking for "freebies". Just a fun night out that doesn't break the bank.
Obviously, most will do that as part of a multi-hour date. Otherwise, your best bet is attending M&G's, where the ladies are out to party with us for an evening on a professional basis. It's also possible that she may be willing to go out for a drink before or after a date if you have an already established, ongoing relationship with her, but that's YMMV.
Don't discount that she may offer a multihour package with multihour rate discounts. It is always possible.
If you like to hang around in a bar with ladies "freebies", you can do that at any bar you want, possibly for free
However........
Save the money and then spend it on a lady who you can make her blow you, take it all in and then make her swallow it all while you slap her face with your cock afterward...
Thats what TER.com is for isn't it
Or a better translation from Dev's response:
Providers do not "hang" for fun or free, the are not meant to be social butterflies. They are only meant to be a hole you get to play with for how long you decide to book the appointments and PAY..
wait was that mean to say ?...
A lot of time it boils down to good timing on your part. Often if I'm out and I'm tweeting or posting fun cocktails on Instagram, if one of my boys texts or emails me for an appointment, and I'm not available, I say "Sorry, I'm not taking appointments tonight but you're welcome to join me for a few drinks" if I'm in the mood. I have a blast.
May the luck of the Irish be with you!
Cheers!
Whit
In all of my years of providing, I've never hung out with any client OTC. I've had many guys who just want to "hang out" without paying me and can't understand why I turn them down.
I'm not a psychoanalyst but I'll play one here.
- I think you just want to go out and have a good, fun time without breaking the bank.
- I think you think the only way to do that is with a Provider off the clock (OTC) since you're not going to want anything or hit on her or anything.
- You sometimes recognize Providers tweeting while out at a bar or other place. (Did you mean following them on-line or while looking at them in the bar? Doesn't matter ...)
Forget the Providers you know. Go to a bar. When you see someone you find attractive who is, maybe, tweeting from the bar, go ahead and ASSUME she is a Provider (but do not bring up the subject). Talk to her. Ask her where she's tweeting her pics or if you can buy her a drink. Do NOT ask her if she has any reviews. Treat her like a human being. Maybe you'll both have a good time.
And if you only buy her a couple of drinks, it won't break the bank
Yes, what he said.
- I think you just want to go out and have a good, fun time without breaking the bank.
- I think you think the only way to do that is with a Provider off the clock (OTC) since you're not going to want anything or hit on her or anything.
- You sometimes recognize Providers tweeting while out at a bar or other place. (Did you mean following them on-line or while looking at them in the bar? Doesn't matter ...)
Forget the Providers you know. Go to a bar. When you see someone you find attractive who is, maybe, tweeting from the bar, go ahead and ASSUME she is a Provider (but do not bring up the subject). Talk to her. Ask her where she's tweeting her pics or if you can buy her a drink. Do NOT ask her if she has any reviews. Treat her like a human being. Maybe you'll both have a good time.
And if you only buy her a couple of drinks, it won't break the bank.
A favorite provider of mine does offer a "social rate", which is around half of her normal rate. If you just wanna hang out at a pool, have a friend to take to a show, not have to go to some business mixer unescorted, she's willing to do it--but with one caveat:
If you decide after your social public time, that you really do want to sneak off to a hotel room for a quickie, then all of her time is billable at the higher rate (retroactively including the social time you've already spent). It's basically an all one-way or all-the-other kind of thing.
For me, it seems very fair: Her time is worth more when she's providing one type of service vs another. You just have to remind yourself of that as you go along, so that you don't fool yourself into thinking you're going to get something for nothing at the end.
And yeah, the other way to get totally free time hanging with providers is definitely waiting until the M&G starts winding down and see who just isn't ready to call it a night yet. Again though, don't think you're going to get a freebie, and you may have a good time carousing with providers and fellow hobbyists.
I prefer a dinner date type scenario but am open to meeting for a social drink before my 'date' - as part of the 'date'. I would not just 'hang' with a client with no 'date' afterwards…
In Vegas it is quite normal for providers to offer discounted rates for "pool parties", "Dinner/Show dates", extended hours to go dancing etc.
I'm coming to NYC in August and have been wondering if it works the same way there..