Hi:

I don't really own any lingerie because I didn't have anything to put into it and they don't make lingerie for a 32A at Victoria's Secret. No, I'm not kidding, I've asked over the years. I was adjusted up top recently (thankfully with very real looking/feeling results) and haven't bought any new bras or anything yet as I can't wear underwire bras or tops until October. Now, that said, I've always worn either what little I do have (I didn't feel sexy or even pretty in it) if it was requested and I would now as well. Problem with lingerie is that some women feel sexy and gorgeous in it, others of us don't. I didn't because I'm thin. I was a gymnast and I have a petite athletic body with long legs and a short torso. Long legs is great, but lingerie seems SO made for the Victoria's Secret models with their long, long legs and super long torsos.

I've had clients and boyfriends buy me Lingerie and ironically, I've liked every single purchase they've made. Strange, isn't it? You'd think it would be like a bra and panties..something the woman would know she could choose better than a man could for herself. I think my problem is that I've had it in my mind for so long that I dislike it, it's hard to wrap my mind around finally liking it on me.

So, this has zilch to do with your question, just addressing what LG said about it being part of a provider's wardrobe. I know many providers bring a huge bag full of it, I never have. Especially walking into a hotel. I wish to look just like every other wary business traveler when I visit a gent at a hotel. I wear appropriate attire no matter where I go but lugging a bag around seems so tiring and obvious. I've actually been thanked for not changing into something other than my birthday suit while in the restroom. I think it's a matter of your wishes.

Now, since you've seen this lady before, it would definitely be appropriate to mention it if you'd enjoy it. Maybe she feels like I do and doesn't have much but when it's requested, she wears it. With a first time encounter, it would ONLY be appropriate to ask AFTER your references have responded and stated you are a safe client. Before that occurs, if it's LE, Lingerie could be construed as evidence that the lady is enjoying more than time for her fee. This is also why I never answer my door in anything remotely slinky. Even with references, you just never know until the guy shows and leaves safely.

Just a little insight. Sorry for longevity.

Andi R.