I too have been active here for several years, both with a couple of ATFs as well as playing the field. One of my ATFs hinted at the possibility but I ignored her, With the other I made a move in that direction but was subtly dissuaded. Never had it offered on a first date
so i recently relocated here from Pennsylvania and i love it here ill add but since i have been here the amount of requests for bare full service alarms me ive never been asked so much for that and i do not offer it just wondering do a lot of providers here offer that?? please feedback from hobbyist and providers is welcome its rather scary to me and ive traveled quite a bit and this is honestly the most ive ever been asked
I have been in and out of this hobby over the last 19 years, seeing about 2 dozen providers in that time. A couple of them were ATFs that I saw many times. Out of those two dozen providers, two offered bbfs to me the first time. And I did eventually have bbfs with both of my ATFs. I was foolish and lucky.
i guess i can see it as a option to a regular client after getting to know them and both being able to provide proof of proper testing but ive never done even with regulars i saw for years! and yes you where lucky babe cuz if they did it for u the first time i can only imagine how many others!! thank you for the feedback tho its appreciated!
I have never asked,,,,nor has a provider offered....I never did think this would be on the table from either side.....
me either i mean ive always occasionally had it asked but never consistantly odd im the only one experience this good to know the men on here do not expect such services!! thanks for the feedback its making me feel a lot better!!
I'm like trainthetrainer. I've never asked nor has it been offered as far as I remember.
yes i agree i never do either it scares me to death!!! my though is they must already have something in curable to not care!!
I've had couple massage providers offer me bbfs and it's not mentioned in their reviews. So probably more common than we think.
I too have been active here for several years, both with a couple of ATFs as well as playing the field. One of my ATFs hinted at the possibility but I ignored her, With the other I made a move in that direction but was subtly dissuaded. Never had it offered on a first date
I have been active in this community for about 5 years. Never asked and I've never been offered.
Id say more often than not has been my experience getting FS. Been tested and always clean. Yes it's dangerous. I've been lucky. I always ask and most times get a yes.
wow thats surprising to me and yes you are extremely lucky becuase if she says yes to you quickly i can only imagine how many others she has to and i cant imagine if a girl did have aides or herpes she would be willing to tell you before services in my opionion and experiences the girls that are quick to do that type of service either have something incurable and nothing to loose or a serious drug problem and are in need of their dose im sorry to say that but its true and sad i know some girls like that and it breaks my heart!! I can see building a somewhat relationship first and both having proof of proper testing and shows they are clean maybe in that case id consider it but it scares my soul i have kids to live for there is not a price on that
...Never in the last 15 years & more than 40 fs sessions has any provider offered me uncovered fs. I may find his statement more creditable if it didn't come from an alias.
I don't think he gives a shit if you find him credible... You weren't the OP. Yes, I'm talking about myself in the third person and no doubt losing even more credibility in your eyes.....oh shit, is there any point in going on in this hobby...?
Just a guess on my part but you might want to double-check things and see if there is anything that could be being misinterpreted from what you meant.
About middle of the page ... "Open Minded" right above "420 friendly" which will add to it
thank u very much maybe that is what it is and i am going to switch that up right away!!! thank you again appreciate it!!!
i guess i never really though about that my add kind of points towards blow jobs lol which i will do bbbj for some guys and im pretty sure a lot providers do bbbj but fs is so much more risky obviously i know u can get things from bbbj but its harder than with fs thanks again all the feedback and i am going to look over my add and anybody else that would like to check out my add please feel free to let me know if you see something i should change!! thanks my header says slobber queen lol
I'd like to watch some one doing it bareback and a BJ while I jerk off. I like live porn.
now that seems ok i think every provider has either a boyfriend or a guy she fucks for her own pleasure not that she dosent get it from hobbyist becuase im not gonna lie some the best oral i ever had was from one of my regulars lol but id do that it be fun i like porn to that would be like live porn in your face lol
I have seen a few providers that use female condoms and it is such a better feeling for the guy.It's like you are going BB.
good suggestion i just recently learned about those and i think i maybe need to check it out the only downside i heard about them is they are not as effective as a male condom thats my only concern
Been here for a while. It happens occasionally, usually with financially desperate providers or very rich clients. Big problem though is that rumors spread very fast. Many guys have posted agree with me that we avoid providers offering this.
Furthermore as one provider recently learned, if a guy writes about it in a review, the board will not delete the review. At that point, the requests will never go away.
I don't ask and would not accept. I also strongly prefer CBJ to BBBJ but many providers will not offer the safer activity because they do not like the taste!
wow im shocked to hear a lot of providers dont do cbj the taste isnt the greatest but u can get condomas that are not so bad me personally i will do bbbj for a tip if everything looks ok and based on the person hygeine all that but if they preferer covered im not gonna argue it and ive had a lot guys that preffered it im always ok with playing safe and prefer it in my experience a lot guys say a bj with a cover just isnt the same but have no prob covering up for fs
There was one local provider who was known to offer it, and I've read a couple reviews where the reviewer mentioned getting bareback. I've never been offered or tried it, in my opinion there's to many things you can pick up even with condom use. I agree with Vorlon, though, the "open minded" thing in your ad might be encouraging some of the more reckless clients to ask for it.
or are you just passing through? Wow, this discussion you started sure did give you the chance to advertise your website link a handful of times.
Bravo on the marketing.
I'll even answer your burning question:
yes providers here offer it, and "a lot" is a matter of opinion and perspective. Is 5 "a lot"? Is 6 "a lot"? Is 1 "a lot"?
Intimate relations of any kind with anyone is a risk (or so they want to make you believe - anyone else grow up in the '80's?). Be an adult, determine what level of risk you want in your lovin' life, don't judge others, etc. As we are adults, you must assume your P4P partner has done the nasty bare with someone at some point in the past. Judge your own risk, cover up or bare it all accordingly and let consenting adults do what they want sans judgement.
The judgement should be reserved for board manipulators, rip offs, and screening cartels. Period.
Somebody needed to step up, and state the obvious.
Your post is impartial, and speaks with common sense.
The bottom line, as has been discussed so many times, Sex in any form, can be a risk to those
who partake. Covered and uncovered !
There obviously are activities that are more risky than others, however as most people are aware, any activity has a risk.
So it is that some are less willing to indulge in the more risky activities, while others remain silent on the subject, as they do not desire to be pegged, or Judged by others.
And of course there are the hypocrites, who come out and say, Never would I do that, Yet they have done it with wives, girl friends, and the occasional strange ?
I don't judge others on who, when, why, or how they chose their partners in sex. But I do judge others when they lie to me.
I view each provider based upon the merits of her services, personality, appearance and things of that nature.
My opinion is this way, Most providers have boy friends, husbands, pimps and the occasional strange ?
I absolutely do not believe it, if they were to state that they do not have unprotected sex what so ever, as the odds are that if they did make that claim, they are not being truthful.
I also look at the hobbyist, and do not believe that they don't engage in activities with wife, GF, and so on, and always do go about it with protection.
So, in the end, each and every individual that I encounter, I conclude, that they are doing the nasty with someone, either in the past, or in the present.
That is the criteria with which I use, in my process of selection.
In the end, it is a personal decision, for each and every member who engages in sexual relations,
And the only real safe manner, that has little risk, is for one to self pleasure oneself, and then not worry about those risks associated with sexual contact with others.
But that method also has risks, such as going to fast, and blowing out a vein, or shooting oneself in the eye when the going gets hot and heavy ! But then if one wears eye protection, or covers up, the risk is minimized, as one still has to worry about if the cover breaks apart.
Bravo on the marketing.
I'll even answer your burning question:
yes providers here offer it, and "a lot" is a matter of opinion and perspective. Is 5 "a lot"? Is 6 "a lot"? Is 1 "a lot"?
Intimate relations of any kind with anyone is a risk (or so they want to make you believe - anyone else grow up in the '80's?). Be an adult, determine what level of risk you want in your lovin' life, don't judge others, etc. As we are adults, you must assume your P4P partner has done the nasty bare with someone at some point in the past. Judge your own risk, cover up or bare it all accordingly and let consenting adults do what they want sans judgement.
The judgement should be reserved for board manipulators, rip offs, and screening cartels. Period.
Don't forget the blisters on your hand...or hands if you're ambidextrous.
Or the possible injuries to those of us flexible enough to selfsuck if you don't stretch enough beforehand.
Your post is impartial, and speaks with common sense.
The bottom line, as has been discussed so many times, Sex in any form, can be a risk to those
who partake. Covered and uncovered !
There obviously are activities that are more risky than others, however as most people are aware, any activity has a risk.
So it is that some are less willing to indulge in the more risky activities, while others remain silent on the subject, as they do not desire to be pegged, or Judged by others.
And of course there are the hypocrites, who come out and say, Never would I do that, Yet they have done it with wives, girl friends, and the occasional strange ?
I don't judge others on who, when, why, or how they chose their partners in sex. But I do judge others when they lie to me.
I view each provider based upon the merits of her services, personality, appearance and things of that nature.
My opinion is this way, Most providers have boy friends, husbands, pimps and the occasional strange ?
I absolutely do not believe it, if they were to state that they do not have unprotected sex what so ever, as the odds are that if they did make that claim, they are not being truthful.
I also look at the hobbyist, and do not believe that they don't engage in activities with wife, GF, and so on, and always do go about it with protection.
So, in the end, each and every individual that I encounter, I conclude, that they are doing the nasty with someone, either in the past, or in the present.
That is the criteria with which I use, in my process of selection.
In the end, it is a personal decision, for each and every member who engages in sexual relations,
And the only real safe manner, that has little risk, is for one to self pleasure oneself, and then not worry about those risks associated with sexual contact with others.
But that method also has risks, such as going to fast, and blowing out a vein, or shooting oneself in the eye when the going gets hot and heavy ! But then if one wears eye protection, or covers up, the risk is minimized, as one still has to worry about if the cover breaks apart.
Bravo on the marketing.
I'll even answer your burning question:
yes providers here offer it, and "a lot" is a matter of opinion and perspective. Is 5 "a lot"? Is 6 "a lot"? Is 1 "a lot"?
Intimate relations of any kind with anyone is a risk (or so they want to make you believe - anyone else grow up in the '80's?). Be an adult, determine what level of risk you want in your lovin' life, don't judge others, etc. As we are adults, you must assume your P4P partner has done the nasty bare with someone at some point in the past. Judge your own risk, cover up or bare it all accordingly and let consenting adults do what they want sans judgement.
The judgement should be reserved for board manipulators, rip offs, and screening cartels. Period.
Few believe me and less care that I post a lot of things to try to keep both genders safe. Remember detractors that you can hit that ignore button any time because I will continue bringing up bad people doing manipulative things that don't benefit any of us but the greedy.
You're right on with the marketing comment. Aside from a cup of flavored coffee, I think it was all guys who responded. Good way to drum up business. I can't believe guys here are any different than in PA.