Do you personally get the same sense of security and safety from the female condom that you do from traditional ones? I've never actually seen one… does it look like you have a plastic baggie hanging out of your pussy or is it all internal?
Thanks for your thoughts.
Suzanne
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..... I feel just as secure when using them as when friends use the male condom. Imo it's more of mentally getting used to it (or was for me anyways)
People with biological cocks (as opposed to strap-ons) often enjoy pressure squeezing the cock in various ways and friction where the sensitive cock skin is being stimulated.
People who are getting fucked in the ass or pussy often enjoy pressure where the cock is pressing into their ass, pussy, g-spot, and/or p-spot, but often don't enjoy the extra friction caused by a traditional condom. Traditional condoms cause more friction for the person taking it (which is why lube is your friend) while simultaneously cutting down on friction for the person giving it (adding a few drops of lube to the cock before putting on the condom will allow the condom to move a little more = more friction on cock skin = more sensation and pleasure).
Pros of the female condom:
- it cuts down on friction for the person being fucked, so you can take more (especially more ass fucking, that tissue is really delicate and easily damaged and the female condom protects it)
- it doesn't interfere with pressure, so you can enjoy g-spot or p-spot stimulation for longer
- it increases friction (feels more like bareback) for the person fucking with a bio cock
Cons of the female condom:
- during rough sex, it's easy for the condom to get pushed up inside the ass or cunt - be careful and check it often
- if a guy cums inside the female condom, you have to be really careful when getting it out - can be a significantly messier process than traditional condoms
There are 2 rings in the female condom, one around the base sealed into the polyurethane and one loose ring at the tip. To insert the condom, you're supposed to squeeze the second ring and push it inside of you, then allow it to expand to hold the condom in place. I've never had this work - my hands are usually slippery with lube, and the second ring is too big and hurts when expanded. I just take the second ring out before inserting.
It does not look like a plastic baggie hanging out of you when inserted properly, but sometimes it does stick to the cock during sex and start to come out. You can fix this by pushing it back in and putting more lube on the inside of the condom. The more lube on the inside of the condom, the better it feels for the guy and the more likely it is to stay inside.
Reasons that I love female condoms:
- they're great for protecting the ass
- men say it feels like fucking bareback
Major concerns:
- fluid leakage if a guy cums - can potentially be averted, but risk is higher than a traditional condom
Hope this is helpful!
Kisses,
Courtney
Not much to add since you were so thorough, but I will say that twisting the FC2 before removing it from the body reduces any chances of spillage greatly. I've never had a problem doing it that way...
In a one male/two female situation, it's a lot easier if the women have the protection. It's a pain for the guy to keep switching condoms going back and forth between the two girls.
My favorite NY lady introduced me to them on our last session.
I was an awesome experience and I did not experience an issues at all.
You dont worry about the details when you are using it with someone you enjoy seeing.