...also enjoy having sex with strangers. It can be thrilling for both parties and it's easy to read if your partner is actually enjoying themselves or can't wait until the session is over. I almost always get invited by the lady to come and see her again, and, again, I'm good enough at reading people to interpret this that she, within her professional boundaries, found me to be a person who she'd enjoy seeing again, was a gentleman and didn't gross her out too badly.
As to the OP's initial point of whether or not this is an angle that will allow Providers and Johns to circumvent prostitution laws... pfffffttttt.... it doesn't matter a bit to the prosecuting attorney. If a John receives any type of sexual gratification in exchange for anything of even marginal value, they can prosecute it as an act of prostitution. Would you prevail if this went all the way to trial? Maybe...maybe not, it depends on the jury. I know that guys like me would never be selected to be a juror in such a case. By the time it makes to to trial and after a defendant will likely rack up legal fees in the 10s of thousands. Regardless of the fantasy scenario you create with your Provider, what is the chance that you will get caught and prosecuted for feeling a woman's boobies while on a couch watching TV with a well reviewed Provider? 1 in 10 gazillion maybe? Just go out and have fun! 
... and one of the usual suspects drops in to prove me right. (I hope you understand I am writing all of this light heartedly...)
I wonder how much they'd enjoy the "sex with strangers" and how often you'd be invited back if you had no Bennies or dead presidents in your wallet?
Yes... I am sure many women love the sex...as do the guys. And if a guy is respectful, I'll bet most women would welcome him back.... IF HE HAS MONEY. Take away the money and I'll bet the invite is taken away too.
Agree with your second paragraph but will add that most prostitution cases do not go to trial not only because of the cost (as you wrote) but because of the stigma attached to a prostitution charge and just the sheer embarrassment / nature of the charges. People just want this to go away so they plea bargain, pay a fine, and have it off their record in a few years. Hard to beat such a rap, and proving entrapment is almost impossible and expensive. And if you lose in trial, it's on your record for good. (Unless you want to gamble and pay thousands several years in the future trying to expunge a conviction from a jury trial.)
Finally... yes .... go have fun. And be safe. Everyone!
... the White Knight bomb during a civil conversation. And, of course, I am writing this light heartedly! 
Keep lickin' away at my anal regions, baybeee!!! 
He's just calling a spade a spade.😃
Posted By: Drumsticks
... the White Knight bomb during a civil conversation. And, of course, I am writing this light heartedly!
Keep lickin' away at my anal regions, baybeee!!!
Badaboom. Drum roll. Rim shot (which a dumbstick would enjoy)
Yep..only a WK dumb as a stick knows what's appropriate and is too dumb as a stick to understand what my message was. Perhaps you need to remove a dumbstick from your dumb ass and get a clue. As Ron White says: "You can't fix stupid."
... something in Belinda's post that suggested she was a Maiden in need of rescuing? If so, I missed it. I tend to believe that, based on your nature of continuous Troll posts, you think that either agreeing with or civilly conversing with a woman is always a form of White Knighting. OK, so be it. The ladies just luvs the Drumsticks!! You...not so much. Thanks, Cman!
What to write when dumbshits is blinded by shining armor? You sure missed it dumb ass, and it was predictable. I'm sure the ladies just love dumbsticks.... and I'm sure they'd love him and spend just as much time if he didn't pay them. (That is sarcasm, drummie boy. Figured I should tell you since so much goes over your head.) If you think I'm a troll, I'll proudly wear that badge because I don't want to be a dumbshit wearing shit-stained armor riding a horse coated with my own cum. And I'll bet the ladies would love me just as much if I brought them a handful of Franklins. Is that really something to brag about?
Ba da booooom!
... would rate 8, 9 10, 11 or 12 for appearance and between 20 and 40 for performance beg me and beg me and beg me for just the chance to spend just a few moments within the aura of my gloriosity! It's really humbling for me and it's helps to ground me to realize the reality that there are such sad Bozo brains out there, like you, who somehow fail to understand that the way to a TER woman's heart is through honest and objective TER reviews! Duh!! The better you treat a lady, the better you get treated. Ladies catch on to that really quickly and line up to compete against all the rest. It's a snowball effect, it really is!!
BTW, you failed to answer the question I posed. I realize that the fact of concentrating on the issue at hand is challenging for you with your alcoholic encephalopathy and that's why you only serve those of us in Fortune 100 companies and can only dream, but never realize what it's like for those of us in the mainstream. Sucks to be you, donnit?!
least ass chayser these days...
just sayin
I tried listening but heard nothing because your reply was written not spoken. You should have written, "Read this."
You either didn't carefully read what I wrote or you misunderstood (I hope) because I don't think you're that foolish- even though I don't know you. My reply was directed at the guys who think providers are going to give them something for nothing. I.e., extra free time or a reduced rate for doing something other than fucking or sucking. And that's not the case as you clearly and succinctly pointed out. My reply was not directed at the providers. In fact I was clear in stating that they are in it for the money. I.e., this is how they earn a living.
But to respond directly to your reply to me:
I consult mostly with Fortune 100 companies but all clients are at least Fortune 500. On numerous occasions I have performed a lot of work and received nothing for the effort....immediately. The reward came months or years later when I finally got a contract. I consider my efforts to be investments because they pay off in the long term by getting and keeping clients for the long haul. I've even had prospective clients take my ideas and not pay me. When's the last time you (or others) gave freebies to retain or reward long-term clients?
If in an ordinary job, no, I would not work for free. But I have done MANY things for relatives, friends, and neighbors and not charged them a penny even though they saved hundreds or thousands. At the end of your first paragraph you sum it up well. Providers have families, friends, hobbies (other than the fuck hobby), etc. I.e., they have a life too. The finite resource is time. If someone throws hundreds at you to fuck or suck their cock, suddenly that time commitment takes precedence over knitting or hanging out with the girls, right? It's about the money. Compensating for time. The battle for the scarce resource: time.
Your second paragraph, while not paradoxical, seems to be incongruent. You wrote that it's not just about the money but provide no supporting statements. The argument you provide, "Some ladies like to fuck and are horny a good part of the time. I always try to find something I like about the guy I am with...whether it be a great sense of humor, the way he screams when he pops, his strength, his "look", his intelligence, the way he moves, his confidence. These things are all attractive qualities" does not at all support your assertion. You like to fuck. But do you do it for free? No. (Guys are jealous because we're always horny. We'd fuck for free if we could. Getting paid to fuck would be a bonus.) Do you suck and fuck because a guy's got a sense of humor, because the way he moves, or because he is confident? I doubt it. You suck and fuck because he pays you for it. So the fact is- it is about the money. Take away the money and how much slurping and sliding would you do?
My intent was not at all to make providers out as evil beings. To the contrary. I was telling guys who think you'll do things for free or at a reduced rate that they are dreaming because this is a provider's source of income. I was on your side. But you are in it just for the money. And there is NOTHING wrong with that. That is not evil. That is capitalism, and this is your job.
