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Chanelmonroe76 3906 reads
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Hey guys ! I really want to have a baby. However I'm nervous that if I got pregnant that once I began showing I would lose all of my clients . Do you think this is true ?  Once I get pregnant do I advertise that I'm pregnant or just surprise them when they arrive ?

vantheman666709 reads

There are men out there who have a fetish for pregnant women.  Also, lactation is another fetish.  So it could be good for business.  However, once you're "showing," I would definitely include it in your advertisements to avoid any "unpleasant surprises

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Chanelmonroe76606 reads

Thank you !

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loveyourtouch774 reads

...don't mislead your  clients- ever!  If you've ever read my posts or reviews, this is probably the biggest disappointment and a bad way to start a session. Others have written the same in their reviews and posts too.  I have no idea who you are, but if you are one who cares about reputation, repeat clients, and perhaps coming back to the hobby post-baby, I'd recommend being upfront.  (Will also prevent reviews from being bad.)  And, as the other poster wrote, you just might gain some clients because some guys like and appreciate a PG woman.  I know there are things about such a woman that excite me.

Good luck!

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Feetlover476 reads

Hard to read your reviews when u use alias.. Just sayin!

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loveyourtouch408 reads

Reviews > Search > Search by reviewers > loveyourtouch > Enter

Or do you need everything handed to you?

Just asking?

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Feetlover357 reads

I'll be damned.. my apologies.. I didn't see the review link under your name when you posted.. I just assumed it was an alias.... I owe you and apology.. Sorry :)

Why doesn't it show under your name when you post?  Now I'm curious!

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vorlon488 reads

Because he is using an alias.  The link only shows for the actual username.

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OldTimerB346 reads

About the OP. Couldn't see her reviews?

Posted By: loveyourtouch
Reviews > Search > Search by reviewers > loveyourtouch > Enter  
   
 Or do you need everything handed to you?  
   
 Just asking?

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Chanelmonroe76467 reads

Thank you !

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OldTimerB526 reads

Is pregnant right now and has been advertising as such. Ask her how it's been going.

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53merc379 reads

I visited a provider a while back that I had seen once before that was pregnant and showing the second time I saw her and she didn let me know.Her first session was good but when I saw her while being pregnant,man did she rock my world and to think I almost didn't stay.I saw her after she had the baby but not lactating and that was my worst and last visit with her.Be honest with your clients and you should be ok

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Chanelmonroe76418 reads

Ok thank you!

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Gemma Coreana451 reads

For pregnant providers!!  Don't worry!!

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Posted By: Chanelmonroe76
Once I get pregnant do I advertise that I'm pregnant or just surprise them when they arrive ?
Do not make it a surprise.  I would say for every guy who thinks it's a turn on, there is another who thinks its a reason to stay away.  And as others have said, some of the worst reviews start with, "she was not as advertised".

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Drumsticks382 reads

...(ha! you thought I was going to say hormones :)  ;)  ...new customers especially through your first two trimesters. Those final weeks, many women find so uncomfortable that having sex with strangers is just such an uncomfortable situation that she may have lost her mojo but we know that bills have to be paid. I suspect that close to 100% of us guys have enjoyed Preggo sex and would love to experience it again. Baby bumps and swollen breasts? Yes...yes...may I have some more?

If I wasn't interested in seeing a Provider before she was pregnant, I wouldn't be more inclined to see her if I knew she was pregnant. If I was interested in seeing a Provider, I would definitely make an extra effort to see her if I knew she was pregnant. It took me a bit of searching to find a profile of you on non TER sites. It would be nice if you would have someone post a review of you on TER. And it would also be nice if you would advertise on this board.  

And, congratulations! I know that inquiries like this are often ex post facto. Live and enjoy your life as only you know how and be a good Mama!  :)

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Chanelmonroe76381 reads

Thank you for your advice ! No I'm not pregnant at this time . I was going to start trying next year .

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arunee360 reads

Dear lady;
Maybe just think of the baby and wait until you are ready.  Once a child is in the picture all thoughts of clients, etc should be put on the back burner and main focus on your newborn.  Just my thoughts.

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RaynaParis441 reads

I just had my child a few months ago, while pregnant I also thought... "well damn there goes my business". Ha nope! I've never been busier! I did stop working my last month other then that it was great, I only offer FBSM so I'm sure it will be busy regardless of what you offer.  

 
Also, now that I'm lactating I am even busier then when I was pregnant WIN WIN! You will do great don't worry!  

 
Kisses,
Rayna Paris

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Chanelmonroe76365 reads

Omg really? That's awesome ! So did you advertise that you were pregnant? I'm not pregnant yet but I want to start trying next year. But I've been having anxiety worrying about how I will pay my bills If nobody wants to see me while pregnant. Thank you so much ! I'm so happy to hear this !

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jchan113339 reads

How are you getting pregnant - by whom? The bill paying is the legal responsibility of the father in part. I hope this child will know their father because dads are important in a child's development and fundamental sense of security and connection. A child can survive with only one parent, but child can thrive with two.

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Drumsticks421 reads

.... off base and out of line. I'm quite sure she is very more qualified to judge her choices than are you. Why would you even think that she hasn't thought all of this through thoroughly and has the approval and support of the baby's potential father? Is it possible she could have an anonymous in-vitro fertilization? Yikes!

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jchan113415 reads

Didn't ask her real name because that's out of bounds. She questioned whether she could pay her bills and I offered her information. If The father is unknown, then she is on her own. If its a BF or known person, then she can receive child support via a paternity test.

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Drumsticks361 reads

... getting pregnant and by whom. That's what's out of bounds. It's obvious to everyone else that she's thoroughly thinking this decision through. Your response is a patriarchal overreach. Receiving child support is one thing. Being able to pay your bills without a source of income is quite a different issue. It's highly unlikely that a court would order the father of her potential child to provide her with a living income.

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vorlon277 reads

If she wants child support and the father can be determined, she can be awarded child support.  How difficult that may be and how difficult collecting may be are entirely different matters which depend largely on her personal life.

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RaynaParis391 reads

Are you serious? Oh wait I forgot we are all pimped out and lonely. Get a grip dude and piss off what a dumb as* comment. :D  
 

Posted By: jchan113
How are you getting pregnant - by whom? The bill paying is the legal responsibility of the father in part. I hope this child will know their father because dads are important in a child's development and fundamental sense of security and connection. A child can survive with only one parent, but child can thrive with two.

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OldTimerB444 reads

The free advertising.  

Planning to get pregnant next year? Right...

Posted By: jchan113
How are you getting pregnant - by whom? The bill paying is the legal responsibility of the father in part. I hope this child will know their father because dads are important in a child's development and fundamental sense of security and connection. A child can survive with only one parent, but child can thrive with two.

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funman1969402 reads

And laughing  while counting the $$$ . Dont be so naive to think she is serious  .

Posted By: OldTimerB
The free advertising.  
   
 Planning to get pregnant next year? Right...  
   
Posted By: jchan113
How are you getting pregnant - by whom? The bill paying is the legal responsibility of the father in part. I hope this child will know their father because dads are important in a child's development and fundamental sense of security and connection. A child can survive with only one parent, but child can thrive with two.

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RaynaParis412 reads

Yes I sure did! Some sites won't allow you to say you're pregnant so I put I had a bun in the oven etc. I'm sure your bills will be paid I know a few others who worked while pregnant and did amazing. Good luck! :)  

 

Posted By: Chanelmonroe76
Omg really? That's awesome ! So did you advertise that you were pregnant? I'm not pregnant yet but I want to start trying next year. But I've been having anxiety worrying about how I will pay my bills If nobody wants to see me while pregnant. Thank you so much ! I'm so happy to hear this !

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Posted By: Chanelmonroe76
Hey guys ! I really want to have a baby. However I'm nervous that if I got pregnant that once I began showing I would lose all of my clients . Do you think this is true ?  Once I get pregnant do I advertise that I'm pregnant or just surprise them when they arrive ?
Pregnant providers can be a lot of fun.  One of the best experiences I had in the hobby was with a provider (now retired) when she was pregnant.  She saw clients for awhile and then just saw me and another guy - my goodness was she horny.  She would call me up and demand that I come over to her house and service her.  Had me install a sex swing and mirrors so we could have even more fun.  We kept seeing each other until a week before birth - it was a time I will never forget.

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