it sounds like you need to try a new experience you can try it with me and I will be the dominant one and I will force you to do all these crazy things during the session,
its always fun to get a sort of nervous unsuspecting guy to do really freaky hardcore crazy stuff he's not used to doing because the providers he's usually With  don't like it.
I love it when I ask a guy to grab me by the hair and start pushing my head up and down on his dick and he responds really most girls don't like that.
to me the reality is it actually isn't more work it's less work because if you go ahead and do that for like 2.5 seconds any guy I kid you not guarantee any single guy what he says he likes it or not is going to get hard as a f****** rock and then he's going to come in less than 2 seconds...
so there is nothing derogatory or stupid about it you're actually going to finish the guy off of a hell of a lot easier and faster so it's kind of a good thing to add to your sessions in my eyes it makes it a lot easier and the guy gets off a lot faster even when guys say they don't like it and you asked him to do it they always all do because I can see them get ten times as hard in less than 2 seconds to a minute they start grabbing me by the head and doing it.
but a lot of the times you have to be ready to take the reigns and order them around because a lot of the times they may be too nervous to come up with all the wild ideas and things to say.
back in black if you were with a girl that actually enjoyed doing stuff differently than what you're used to you would probably find that you enjoy it too
chances are you're probably only seeing women that like to do gfe style BJ as opposed to a PSE BJ

having the guy hold you by your hair at the nape of the neck and then...
while you're over him and he's laying down I love that move. whenever I ask the guys to do it they say oh really most girls don't like that!
it's actually less work believe it or not because you're not doing anything they're doing it'
so I don't see what the big deal about that is I think its easier
then the hanging the head over the edge of the bed and then having the guy skull f*** you that's always a fun one'
unless they have no rhythm and they don't know how to pump themselves in and out of your mouth while you hang over the edge of the bed then it can be a bore
I tried to do that with one guy wants and he just set their dad is a fish not moving I'm like um hello this is your cue to f*** my mouth dude!!!!
I think when it comes to BJ's anything but vanilla is good'
I'm practicing seeing if I can get it all the way down my throat right now it is really really hard---
I did an appointment with a dominant male last week it was really fun
the deep throat goes good when the guy is the dominant one in the woman is more of a sub
I think its one or two when the guy can act dumb while you guys are doing all the deep throat things
The dominant talk on.guys part during a dt session is good. I have to tell them what to say most times if thats what in mood for.  
I think the DT sessions are awesome but I think it would take a woman who likes being submissive to get into it.
I like to be more Dom during my packing sessions during a DT session I would want to be the submissive one....
I actually think he will probably get a lot of responses .  
however I had a client come once thought we were going to do a whole hour of duty which to me was just disrespectful I think DT is fun but not for a long long. Of time it would have to be more of a short. Of time cuz it will actually end up hurting you,,,
so it would be someone who is experienced hobbyist who has a lot of experience if its someone who is not aware of what they're doing and expect you to do it for a full hour or longer. You could end up really straining your neck and being very hurt.
I had this one guy I saw in Boston once he was actually a firefighter I seen probably dozens of firefighters in Boston for whatever reason.
but he was such a dick I was like dude are you serious you think we're going to do a DT session for a full hour he kept complaining saying I thought you said we could do a session I'm like yeah nobody's going to do a DT session for a full 60 minutes dude!
you're freaking neck would snap off!!! and the guy was actually arguing with me and pissed off about it he was such an a******
anyways I don't think there's anything wrong with Aditi session but I think this guys going to have to understand that he can't expect a girl to be doing it for a full hour or super long time.
I think messing around like that just a little bit is good but not so long that it actually starts to hurt the person..
some of the guys do forget that we are not plastic blow up dolls and that we do actually have spinal cords and muscle tissues and fibers as well as nerve endings!!!!!!!
sometimes the more experienced ones are not aware of what they're doing when they're in a zone which is perfectly understandable a lot of people get into his own and I'm not thinking clearly I myself even get into his own when I am about to get off so I can totally see where that would happen'''''

to recommend someone, one would hope that you are a safe person, or that there is some rapport, otherwise this person could be unsafe, LE, or what have you. But I do think when there are some posts from men with reviews or who are extremely specific they receive responses. As for the ISO's with no specifics, I had a rant, but it's because I think it's silly. I think the chances of finding someone who fits your budget, likes, and availability who sees your post at the exact right time is a bit slim.

cosette got a badge in her cracker jacks and took the

oath no fun sex for anyone ..

sometimes when people act mean or rude it's because they have been abused or had something bad happened to them
I am totally not saying that's where it is stemming from on here
but women who may have had bad experiences are definitely going to be completely against certain activities because they may have psychological or traumatic stress from a bad experience we know women in this line of work are often victims of violence.
they're always so many variables that we have to consider on where people's hostility maybe stemming from
I knew one guy that I was seeing and he said this other girl he was seeing did not like to do anal because her step father used to rape her and make her do it when she was young.
I know this is graphic and also very negative but we have to consider we do not know where these people came from we don't know what has happened to them in the past and usually when people are mean it's because they are damaged in something bad has happened to them along the road to make them this way
as human beings we are born very trusting open individuals and it is the rudeness and craziness and violence in this world that makes us turn into the hard.
and again I am NOT making an assumption that anyone has been raped or abused I'm just saying we have to take into consideration all the many variables that can make people shut down close up and turn hard.
I am one of the very fortunate women in the world that has never been in an abusive relationship and has never been raped or molested or had any other wise violent actions on me towards men in a sexual manner.
for this reason I do sometimes enjoy what others may not enjoy but I do like doing some crazy stuff had I had any kind of bad experience like about 50 percent of the women the world has I'm sure I wouldn't want to.
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Are you in nyc or Boston?