neither can her name even be mentioned on the boards.
I would suggest that you not see providers with "no review" policies unless you have a trusted source of information about the person.
I am new to this board and review boards in general. I think this is good place to swap information! I have been exploring and reading the reviews. I will be making my way down to Boston soon and I look forward to enjoying some US hotties! I will post reviews.
On some of the ladie's sites I see "no review policy". I am on a Toronto board that follows this policy and will delete reviews if the lady has this. I am also on another board that does not let the "no review policy" stand, reviews of ladies' with an NRP do appear on such boards.
My question is, where does TER stand on this issue? Am I allowed to review a lady with a NRP posted on her site?
neither can her name even be mentioned on the boards.
I would suggest that you not see providers with "no review" policies unless you have a trusted source of information about the person.
I just looked up a few providers with No review policies and there are reviews of them here. I take it that TER does not adhere to these policies?
if she is not aware of your handle, you can still review her ... don't give out specifics, but this is a hobbyist board, so fellow-hobbyists have a duty to report scams/upselling/poor service etc regardless of the lady's "policy"
TER could not care less what the ladies policy is. If she has an ad anywhere on the web with a way to contact her, they will post the review. They will respect her if she objects and wants it taken down, however they will delist and ban her from TER. Now 'Thems the Rules'.
to not post a review vs. her asking TER to remove posted reviews. In the former situation that decsion is your's alone to make. Some guys honor those requests only if the service was satisfactory and some guys do not honor the requests at all. In the latter case if the lady asks TER to remove her reviews then her profile will become delisted and no further reviews can be posted on her profile. When this occurs then she may no longer post her ads and open discussion about her on the boards is not permitted.
Well my opinion is this: I will never give out my handle here to a lady, a review should be objective and asking her if it is okay (and giving out my handle!) augments the objectiveness of the review. What I mean is that it me sound like I am shilling for a lady.
I am from Toronto, ontario Canada. The boards here are a bit different. I read some of the reviews and and it makes me think "no wonder some of these girls don't want reviews. These guys are disgusting". I think it is the Canadian review boards that deter many a lady from wanting reviews. At least that is what I think. I have seen several "NRP" providers, and my thoughts are that they are really no better or worse then the reviewed providers. Some are really great and worth a repeat, others are just plain and boring.
So now that I know the rules, I will continue to post my reviews. I am glad I have found this place, I like the style of the reviews-more informative IMO.
Again there is a difference between a hobbyist asking a provider if posting a review is okay vs. the provider asking the hobbyist to not post a review. I'll agree that in almost all cases the former is something that should be avoided. Not a subject that the hobbyist should even bring up. However be preapred for the latter. It does not happen that much comparatively speaking but it does occur. Speaking for myself, when this happens, I will honor her request and refrain from posting a review if the service was satisfactory and as expected. If not all bets are off...
The other point surrounds your comfort level on sharing your TER handle with a provider. This is debated often around here and for every guy who says 'no way' there is one who will say 'no problem'. I can sense you know some of the pitfalls of sharing your handle. But I wonder if you know of or have you considered some of the plus side?
- Screening can often be facillitated by sharing your TER handle. Some providers get more comfortable if they see evidence of a hobbyist's other reviews and his history of posting on the boards. TER also has a 'White List' feature where providers can select a gent that they have seen and assist other ladies in a good will reference that essentailly says this guy was safe and a decent client.
I'm not going to go into all of the debate points but just know some guys do and some guys don't; some ladies find the info helpful and some ladies don't. Find your own comfort level but it sounds like you already know where you stand on this issue...
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she has not requested that TER NOT post her profile and reviews... if she has requested to be delisted, then the review will not post.
I'm very interested in a provider that doesn't allow reviews. She appears to be very professional.
Try putting a 411 on your local board.
True enough
A lot are very discreet and prefer not the intimate details out there.....
There are some, known as UTR, under the radar, ladies who are out there... currently I see two of them who pulled their profiles and schedule with old regulars or referrals only.
. . . does not want any reviews?
Unless she rips you off or something horrible occurs, why violate her wishes?